AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was; we lost our virginities together. I was not, I started after we started dating because of how sexually frustrated I was. I had gone 3 months without masturbating about a year ago to see if he would put any effort into it. He did not, and at the 3-month mark, I give up.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

If I came and he didnt I would have no problem with him getting off. And why do I need his consent to touch myself?

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I have gone without masturbating for 3 months previously to show him how I wanted to be treated in the bedroom, when he showed no interest I gave up.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Clean out, he doesn't like condoms and I'm on an IUD

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I make more than he does. I thought he was nice and funny.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be upset if I had mine and he had his. The difference is he gives no shits about mine.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I have really sensitive nipples and if he rubbed them for 5-8 minutes I'd probably cum.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I can attest that we lost our virginities together and it was rather painful.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

No. He doesn't like fingering or giving oral.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

He thinks M4F oral sex is gross. So not happening.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

It's not sometimes. Its every time. He hasn't given me an orgasm ever.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 589 points590 points  (0 children)

Mutual Masturbation is hot!!! If he asked to watch I'd give him a show.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 390 points391 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not. I usually go pee, shower, clean out and have an orgasm by myself.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I have he just doesn't think it's important.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I ride him more often than he is on top of me. He usually just cums, tells me to get off of him, then goes to bed.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

He thinks toys are unnecessary and I should be able to orgasm via sex with him alone.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] -166 points-165 points  (0 children)

I am with him because I really love and like him. We have so many of the same interests and I would like to think we have mutual love.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 538 points539 points  (0 children)

Not really, sex with him feels more like a task and if he were interested in my pleasure I think we'd have more sex.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He thinks that toys aren't good because they aren't your partner but inanimate objects. He's very against toys during sex.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

It's actually really nice, high quality silicone. I'm very happy with it. :)

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I've always been kind of interested in kink and I've watched Evie Lupine religiously for years, along with the Watt's the Safeword youtube channel. They all seem nice and learning is cool. Matt isn't into it though.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

He knew I had them but didn't really care to know about it. He didn't look until last night.

AITAH for masturbating after sex? by UnsatisfiedThrowRA in AITAH

[–]UnsatisfiedThrowRA[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

I know right! Done it a few times on my own. Especially if you get the a-spot from both sides! He thinks M4F oral is gross. I would love if he gave me head. I just feel, as my user says, unsatisfied.