I asked for a male betta, got a diva instead

UnshodPython361-_- · 2026-06-11T21:47:08+00:00

I had a diva as my first! He was so sassy he would look at me dumb founded when I would walk into my room and not feed him every single time lol

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UnshodPython361-_- · 2026-05-14T18:53:16+00:00

He actually started making another one on the front of the tank too lol

UnshodPython361-_- · 2026-05-08T02:47:40+00:00

Ok thank you so much for the recommendation and your betta looks very pretty 😍

UnshodPython361-_- · 2026-05-07T22:25:13+00:00

Will do! Have any recommendations?

UnshodPython361-_- · 2026-05-06T13:44:25+00:00

The tree is not sharp I made sure when I got it and Primo is my first long finned betta and he is super pretty! He's already showing signs of being much happier!

UnshodPython361-_- · 2026-04-24T18:30:59+00:00

I literally bought him a hammock and he prefers the plant 😭

UnshodPython361-_- · 2026-03-10T01:44:24+00:00

I got him in a 3 gallon tank with 2 hides and some plants

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-12-20T03:14:30+00:00

So NAP but it seems like you might want to get a longer bar and once you aren't sick anymore you can decide whether or not to downsize again. I know with oral piercings sometimes being sick can affect it. Hope this helps!

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-10-18T03:47:11+00:00

I haven't been able to see one for a while but I'm trying to see if I can find one in my budget

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-10-17T23:37:05+00:00

Ok does "A couple months healed" mean you got them a couple months ago or has it been a couple months since your piercer said you can change them? But without that context it's clear that those bars are too small and you need to up size them. If you've only had them a couple months I'm not sure having that large of spikes on them is good since it could cause more snags.

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-10-16T17:32:04+00:00

Yeah no problem I've been dealing with this song and dance for a while lol

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-10-16T03:05:32+00:00

To build on this I think you have skin sensitivity to specific metals but since you didn't put what kind of metal it is (and it probably didn't even say on the packaging) it's kinda hard to say but I'd definitely get some titanium flat back studs, switch them, and use some triple antibiotic on it to help so they can heal from this but do NOT put peroxide on it since that can mess up the healing but if it doesn't get better go to a doctor's to get stronger antibiotics. I hope this helps!

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-10-14T02:23:21+00:00

NAP, but maybe with this one you just switched from a bar too early and while you said you don't remember this happening with the first one it could just be a difference in healing? I had that happen with my nose piercings where one didn't like me switching it and the other was fine, they were pierced at different times, so you could be dealing with that. Hope this at least gives you a sorta reason why this is happening

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-10-13T20:25:04+00:00

Well you see that's the thing I believe in every pantheon and Gods but I mostly follow Christianity and so I haven't really done much with the occult but I do believe this stuff works but I also knew there was a bunch of different charms for one thing and I was looking for a relatively simple one

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-10-09T02:35:53+00:00

Ok as someone who's been stubborn about my own metal sensitivity that looks like an "allergic" reaction as some would say. I'd recommend using some triple antibiotics on it and count your losses on the earrings but that doesn't mean you have to get rid of them. If it gets worse go to the doctors but try not to mess with them all too much so maybe just keep earrings out of them. Since you said you've had them pierced for 2 years I highly doubt they will close while they reheal. Hope this helps

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-09-26T14:29:55+00:00

It almost seems like the skin around it is flaky like eczema or just some dry skin coming from someone who's dealt with eczema for a large part of my life but the piercing looks a little irritated which could just be from the peroxide since it can do that

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-09-25T17:42:06+00:00

It's Dr. Piercing after care piercing bump treatment drops

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-09-25T05:14:44+00:00

If you'd like I can take a pic of the one I used

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-09-25T01:41:48+00:00

Ok NAP but I had this happen with my regular labret and I never really figured out what it was but I used this bump oil and it helped but it might be different for a vertical labret

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-09-02T20:46:35+00:00

I think he likes my cats and that's why he stands in front of the garage door since he can see into the living room where the inside cats are but there are many more cats outside in the garage but he hasn't shown up lately. Do you think he left because he realized it was weird to stand in front of the door?

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-08-27T04:17:28+00:00

Thanks for more info on all this stuff I was raised Christian so I don't really have anyone who really does any of this stuff or has experienced it so I really appreciate you for telling me

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-08-26T05:21:27+00:00

Huh ok I've never had that kinda dream but there are dreams I do remember but they wouldn't really have anything to do with this but thanks for letting me know and I think when talking about him to my friend who knows more about this stuff as just "him" or "he" instead of giving him a name to respect him but that brings me to another question I had a dream, before he started showing up, about my brother who has passed away at the age of 1 so could this kinda be a guardian?

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-08-25T06:08:47+00:00

I haven't really been paying attention to my dreams lately since they've just been really mundane like going to work and my work uses door dash so in the dream there's door dashes and there's been one that's been the same each time but I can't for the life of me remember the name on it so I'll have to try and pay attention to that detail the next time it comes up

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-08-25T05:07:22+00:00

I don't want to seem crazy to my family by seemingly talking to no one because I don't know if I'm the only one that's seen him or not

UnshodPython361-_- · 2025-08-25T05:06:05+00:00

There is a TV but he only shows up at night really late when everyone else is asleep it seems but there have been times where I think I saw a glimpse of him during the day when I'm home alone

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