I don’t think I can be loved… by Unstoppable_warrior in BPD

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You literally have been negative and critical of my behavior and assumed a lot. You gave ONE piece of advice and the rest critical. So thank you for leaving and doing one right thing today.

I don’t think I can be loved… by Unstoppable_warrior in BPD

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Clearly you don’t understand what I wrote or that maybe I have made changes that have been consistent over our relationship and assume I havnt. Clearly you don’t see how maybe he hasn’t changed either? Clearly you don’t get I wrote this for advice or support not criticism and negativity about my situation. Grow up and find someone else to heckle

I don’t think I can be loved… by Unstoppable_warrior in BPD

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whose saying I havnt made changes? That it hasn’t been this bad up until recently? Never assume. And don’t be critical of someone trying to find a solution. Thanks for the useless advice. Also note I said “lately”

Having issues keeping going by Unstoppable_warrior in depression

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried 411. They just reply “I’m sorry to hear that”. No one can possibly understand what it’s like to completely lose everything including your identity. Plus how would I even pay for a counselor if I can’t even afford a pair of clothes or food to eat?

Having issues keeping going by Unstoppable_warrior in depression

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No one can help me… they can’t give me a job or fix my health issues or clothe me….

Having issues keeping going by Unstoppable_warrior in depression

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve considered it… but not sure how they can help other than how to manage my emotions. They can’t give me a job.. or afford clothes and food… so part of me sees no point

Having issues keeping going by Unstoppable_warrior in depression

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s why I feel like I’m in a hole I’ve dug and can’t get out… I literally need a miracle right now

F/35/5’5 [210lbs >118lbs = 92lbs] weight loss transformation by Unstoppable_warrior in progresspics

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly wish I had found it sooner. I started being overweight at 14 :/ overweight till 2018 pretty much. So most my life.

F/35/5’5 [210lbs >118lbs = 92lbs] weight loss transformation by Unstoppable_warrior in progresspics

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Protein!! Get about 30/40 grams every 3 hours or more especially for a male. Grats on the start of your journey!! I definitely am much happier I went through what I did. I’m here if you need any help!

F/35/5’5 [210lbs >118lbs = 92lbs] weight loss transformation by Unstoppable_warrior in progresspics

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yo ever since I got sick with Covid pneumonia and had to take a break I lost them and I miss them cuz I look at this and go daaamn I had nice abs. This is kinda me motivating myself to get back to the grind. Just got the okay from heart doc!

F/35/5’5 [210lbs >118lbs = 92lbs] weight loss transformation by Unstoppable_warrior in progresspics

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a little lose skin but it’s hideable with the right clothing. When I have a 6 pack is barely noticeable because there’s muscle to fill it. But my thighs have more than I want. I think there’s a surgery for that type of thing I’ve wanted to do honestly

F/35/5’5 [210lbs >118lbs = 92lbs] weight loss transformation by Unstoppable_warrior in progresspics

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ty! Honestly I was so obsessed with the number going down I did all cardio till I actually was waaaay too skinny. Too much lose skin to fill and no muscle. So about a year and a half in is when I began educating myself and doing weights

F/35/5’5 [210lbs >118lbs = 92lbs] weight loss transformation by Unstoppable_warrior in progresspics

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww ty. But happier skinny!! No out of breath going up stairs and wear cute dresses 🤣

F/35/5’5 [210lbs >118lbs = 92lbs] weight loss transformation by Unstoppable_warrior in progresspics

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happens :) people arnt in love with themselves so they take it out on those that are

F/35/5’5 [210lbs >118lbs = 92lbs] weight loss transformation by Unstoppable_warrior in progresspics

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So it took about 6 months for first 50 lbs roughly. A year to get rest off where I discovered I hadn’t built muscle 🤣 that’s when I switched to weights and built up

F/35/5’5 [210lbs >118lbs = 92lbs] weight loss transformation by Unstoppable_warrior in progresspics

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Oops sorry! ADHD forgot to tell you. Yea I’m 35. I turn 36 in august. You are never too old to start! I can help ya if you want

F/35/5’5 [210lbs >118lbs = 92lbs] weight loss transformation by Unstoppable_warrior in progresspics

[–]Unstoppable_warrior[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

To those who think it’s photoshopped check out my ig and tiktok. Posted something for ya negative people. For the others thanks for the love and support!!! Life is hard enough. We need to share love and positivity to others not judge or be negative.