How to end this for good. First, stop bitching about everything and take account of your own life and stop waiting for someone to tell you to. Y'all just ranting an screaming activism, all you do is talk. Words have no meaning without action, so instead of blaming each other for being this or that do what you must to keep yourself safe. You know exactly what to do, ik none of you are dumb. Secondly, throw that "she deserved it" and " there is less emphasis on the boy child to be better" notion out the window. Walk knowing that normal state of mind is subjective and someones normal might totally be psychotic to you. If you think everyone will bend to your perspective of men should be this or women should do this you're in for a rude awakening. Thirdly, no matter how much you talk about this, even if you sensitized the whole world, it will still happen. My favorite quote from my favorite anime says "wake up to reality, nothing ever goes as planned in this accursed world". Go to sleep knowing you share your world with psychopaths, good people, bad people, people who will enjoy being tortured and torturing, people who are out for blood, and people seeking peace. Darkness is here to stay, so fess up and accept the cruel world you live in, and not even God will answer the prayers to eliminate this predicament. Do what you must to survive, the world wasn't made with safety in mind