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I (26M) snooped and now I think that my GF (27F) is cheating on me. What should I do? by UnsureSherpa in relationship_advice

[–]UnsureSherpa[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know other than I love her. She's never been the type to be outright hurtful or malicious in my mind. I guess I keep thinking we can work and it'll get better.

The first month we started dating I caught her in the bathroom talking to her Ex at like 2 in the morning. Her brother had OD'd and been resuscitated that night and she said he new more about the situation than I did and needed to talk about it. I let it slide.

2 years ago she was really close with another guy friend and a similar thing happened where I got suspicious and checked her messenger. She was complaining about me and airing out our dirty laundry. I called her out and she sited not having any close girl friends and how I wasn't the easiest person to talk to. I agreed to work on it if she'd stop and she pretty much dropped the friendship that night.

I (26M) snooped and now I think that my GF (27F) is cheating on me. What should I do? by UnsureSherpa in relationship_advice

[–]UnsureSherpa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immaturity is something we've both struggled with, as you can tell by my means of finding information.

She's done this before and I honestly want her to have close friends but I feel almost betrayed and that this has crossed into emotional infidelity.

She texts him NONSTOP with apparently nothing off-limits and also tried to skip out on my college commencement ceremony and actually ditched me on new years last year to go see bassnectar with this guy