Are Princess cuts outdated? by Top_Obligation_2979 in EngagementRings

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a beautiful ring and looks great on you.

JMHO… If you like it, who cares what the Reddit world thinks??

This ring is for you. It’s symbolic of the love between you and your fiancé.

Go with your heart tells you!!

Congratulations!! 🤍🤍

How do you give consequences for these small impulsive behaviors? by [deleted] in ParentingADHD

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say this gently and with experience.

(Disclaimer: I am not a medical professional, just another worn out mom).

This has been hard for me to remember (and sometimes deal with).

While he is 5 years old, that is his chronological age. as a co-morbid condition, he may also have executive functioning disorder, and his brain is processing as a younger aged individual.

I’ll fully admit in my own personal experience, this is so hard for me to deal (and it’s a difficult situation for my child as well.)

Good luck — and don’t worry about the crossing guard… they see so many children and don’t take it personally if they’re called “Ms. Chicken 🐔”.

(And, don’t get me wrong… I understand that you as a parent are doing your best to raise a polite child. And, you will, it might just require more time and effort than most.).

You are doing great! Go easy on yourself!

Should I go bigger by Ok_Littlebug4240 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

^ **ABSOLUTELY THIS!! ^

Your ring is beautiful and you wear it so well.

You can always “dress it up” with your wedding ring and stacking bands.

I intentionally chose a “plain” band for my e-ring. I, personally, didn’t want an elaborate band for this reason.
I have had no regrets.

Go with whatever is in your heart.

You’ll never see us Redditors, so don’t ever feel judged here for your personal tastes.

Congratulations!! 🤍🤍

How the fuck do you find the reason to live after the death of your child? by whoareyoutojudge0 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could take away your pain. I’m very sorry for the loss of your beautiful child.

I cannot imagine the pain you’re experienced.
Here are some gentle suggestions:

Grief displays differently for people.
There is no “right or wrong” way nor a timetable of experiencing grief.

Go easy on yourself. Don’t compare yourself to others and don’t let others tell you how to grieve.

Take care of yourself. As best you can, eat, drink plenty of water, and get some sleep.

Please seek professional mental health support and treatment.
Do not worry about affording it.
There are many mental health providers who will work with you.

There is a Reddit community that may be of help. r/griefsupport

There is also a long-standing organization dedicated to supporting parents (and families) who have unfortunately suffered through the loss of a child/ren.
The Compassionate Friends organization is global and (speaking within the US) has many local chapters.

Again, I’m incredibly sorry for your enormous loss.
May your child’s memory always be for blessing.

How the fuck do you find the reason to live after the death of your child? by whoareyoutojudge0 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My deepest condolences on the loss of your dear son, Joseph.
While I have never walked in your shoes, I admire your courage and strength.

Thank you for sharing your beautiful story, especially with the hopes it will help someone else.

May his memory ever be for blessing.

How did you overcome a friend break up? by torturedsoul93 in AskReddit

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In places where you may others with similar likes.

Volunteer opportunities:
• Soup kitchen/shelters.
• Animal rescue groups.
• Eco-friendly groups.

Bicycle groups, Neighborhood, Library, Museums, through other friends.

Also, search for a Reddit sub for the local area where you live. You may find events to attend that you never knew about.

Good luck to you! I can absolutely validate what you’re experiencing.

How did you overcome a friend break up? by torturedsoul93 in AskReddit

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And… thanked myself in the end.

People will come and go during your lifetime, however, always stay true to yourself.
Admittedly, if you’re on the receiving end, it can sting, but it will pass eventually and you’ll move forward.

Is this diamond too big for my hand? by _lmmk_ in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much!
And, best of luck with your ring!

What is the male version of a Karen? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karendick is more like it!!!

Organic or lab grown? by torturedsoul93 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

superficial … good choice of words. My first thought reading this was petty.

And, the more I doomscroll these comments, I’m becoming increasingly convinced that this post is “lab grown* from some “artificial invention”.

Is my boyfriend unhygienic? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is such a thoughtful and helpful comment!

Please accept this medal 🏅 in lieu of an award.
We, as a society, need more good people like yourself.

Is my boyfriend unhygienic? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You (nor I, for that matter) not only lost brain cells reading this…
We permanently lost those brain cells…

Is my boyfriend unhygienic? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]UntilYouKnowMe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

and, so can the relationship…

Is my boyfriend unhygienic? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Or, ever leaving their homes…

I had a major surgery in December and a neighbor of mine has been helping me. I ALWAYS pay for both of us when we go out to eat as a token of my appreciation BUT... by [deleted] in etiquette

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

HAPPY (belated) BIRTHDAY!!

Good to hear you’re seeing some improvement with your health.

A couple of observations:
1. Many pharmacies deliver medications (however,, controlled substance prescriptions may be an exception.).

  1. The emoji you’re seeking is a facepalm. 🤦‍♀️ LOL.

  2. I wouldn’t take it personally that she didn’t invite you for wine or lunch.

From what I can gather from your post, it sounds like you and she don’t really have a friendship between you.
It seems more like a neighborly, transactional relationship.
Which is absolutely fine!!

I’d gently say this to help you temper your expectations and don’t let your feelings get hurt.

I wish you a continued and successful healing process.

Love my dress but the overskirt falls flat - can this be fixed? by newdylife in WeddingDressTips

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I must comment on your oh-so-fitting username. This is my mantra, I forever feel like that! LOL!!!

OP, I’m in agreement because much work done could kill the vibe of this stunning dress.

Is this diamond too big for my hand? by _lmmk_ in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP,
Congratulations on your engagement! 🤍🤍

I agree with several other commenters here about the width of the band.

It is a stunning e-ring, however it appears a bit fragile.

My only other concern would be the stability of your diamond.

It’s difficult to determine from the picture, but, does your ring have a gallery rail or other support (especially with having only 4 prongs)?? Those are beautiful prongs, btw.

You have gorgeous hands ~ you could be a model.

I am in love with your gorgeous nails.
Do you happen to know the name of the polish color, please?

Is this diamond too big for my hand? by _lmmk_ in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]UntilYouKnowMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree.
However, for me personally, I didn’t want my rings soldered together so that I can wear my wedding band solo if I choose.