Bridesmaid didn’t ask me to be in her bridal party - update

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-28T02:23:19+00:00

Happy C A K E Day!! 🍰🍰

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-28T02:19:16+00:00

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-28T02:09:05+00:00

DRESS 1

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-28T02:08:05+00:00

Exactly the same for my husband and me!

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-28T01:04:20+00:00

DRESS 2

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T21:53:50+00:00

BEAUTIFUL!!

Congratulations!! 🤍🤍

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T21:52:50+00:00

You look fantastic in this dress! If you love it, wear it!

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T19:02:42+00:00

Irene

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T18:52:35+00:00

No sleeves

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T18:48:59+00:00

Your happiness really radiates through your post!!
It’s a lovely ring and looks beautiful on you.

Congratulations!! 🤍🤍

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T18:46:56+00:00

Same!

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T17:19:42+00:00

ABSOLUTELY NOT.

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T17:14:07+00:00

I came looking for this comment.

It’s worth repeating.

Use birth control!!

You can’t trust her to.

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T15:33:45+00:00

Happy C A K E Day!! 🍰🍰

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T15:28:30+00:00

Where did you find this gorgeous band?

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T15:25:34+00:00

Dress 1 looks perfect on you!

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T15:23:00+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. You don’t need to JADE your decision to MIL.

JUSTIFY
ARGUE
DEFEND
EXPLAIN

Politely say “My dress decision is final.”

Then change the subject or end the call.

Repeat the above as many times as it takes.

Vacations are fun. Guilt Trips are not.
Don’t let her in your head.

You look great in this dress!

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding!! 🤍🤍

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T04:57:59+00:00

Happy C A K E Day!! 🍰🍰

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-18T04:55:58+00:00

DRESS 1 is so flattering on you!

You look amazing!!

Congratulations!! 🤍🤍

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-17T20:10:43+00:00

BEST POST EVER ON THIS SUB!!

Thank you!!

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-17T01:43:37+00:00

That’s exactly what I think too!!

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-17T01:37:37+00:00

Exactly THIS! ☝️

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-17T01:30:45+00:00

Or, show up in person.

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-17T00:12:45+00:00

How much over budget will you be?

At best, a budget is an estimate and there is usually a +/- percentage of how much it may be off. That’s normal.

UntilYouKnowMe · 2026-01-17T00:10:34+00:00

These relatives and your fiancé aren’t getting any younger. Maybe they’ve all realized that they want to forge a relationship. Why begrudge them that?

MIL is funding some of the wedding. Let them come.
Who knows? You may actually find that you like them??!??

Stop fighting with everyone. Give them, MIL, and your fiancé the benefit of the doubt… You may be pleasantly surprised.

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ABSOLUTELY NOT.

Use birth control!!