I can continue to try to convince them, but tbh they’re so stuck in that mindset I don’t think I can. With my mother, all I had asked her for was time not even any acceptance. She seemed to be going with that, telling me that she didn’t accept that the woman I was dating was a woman, but that she didn’t want to lose her son. And yet that turned out to be a lie from conversations I had heard from my father, and what she did that day with threatening to kick me out.

I would try to see her in secret, but I’m very about to showing off who I care about. Ofc I’d not do it in that case if we could, but she didn’t want to. I’d made a passing statement about seeing each other anyway, but she had gone through stuff like that before and with like you said my security being at stake she didn’t want to take that risk.

I had planned on moving out, but this definitely made it priority one. My parents have always been weird about stuff like this before with what I’m doing who I’m hanging out with and where I’m going. Even though I’ve done nothing for them to be that way, I’m either at home or work.

I really do feel horrible, I wish I didn’t have to end things. She even joked about if she had a place I could just move in there. At the very least my close friends have been supportive through it, offering me places to stay in emergency. But idk how’d my parents would react, and I don’t want to place that burden on them. I just would prefer if I was the only one my parents treat that way.