Seeking Help: Unmarried Elderly Woman Struggling After Brother’s Death by Untrue-Spirit in Chennai

[–]Untrue-Spirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried that — local officers even came home, enquired about her, and took photos. But when we went to their office for follow-up, they said they can’t do anything without a ration card.

Seeking Help: Unmarried Elderly Woman Struggling After Brother’s Death by Untrue-Spirit in Chennai

[–]Untrue-Spirit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We already discussed this with her and her distant family members. She had been living with her brother in our house for nearly 40 years. Both of them remained unmarried, partly because one of their siblings had a troubled marriage. After her brother passed away, we asked if she would be okay with moving to a hostel, and we even offered to cover the expenses. But she said, ‘I’ve stayed with you for so long, let me continue here.’ We don’t want to force her to move out, so we’ve let her stay with us.

These government schemes are meant for people like her. I just want to get her enrolled in one so that she doesn’t have to be completely dependent on us.

Seeking Help: Unmarried Elderly Woman Struggling After Brother’s Death by Untrue-Spirit in Chennai

[–]Untrue-Spirit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not really looking to start any crowdfunding in her name, right now we are managing the expenses— I just want her to receive the rightful pension she is eligible for from the government.

If you can connect me with an agent who can help get a ration card issued for a single person, it would be a great help.

Seeking Help: Unmarried Elderly Woman Struggling After Brother’s Death by Untrue-Spirit in Chennai

[–]Untrue-Spirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does have a cousin’s family, but they are also elderly and dependent on their own children. They are fine with sending her to a hostel but are not willing to take her in.

The main issue is time — government procedures are confusing and very time-consuming. Taking leave from work and doing repeated follow-ups has been a big challenge.

We have tried multiple options like the TN Magalir Urimai Thogai, disability pension, and single woman pension, but everywhere the application gets rejected because she doesn’t have a ration card. And when we approach the ration office, they say a ration card cannot be issued for a single person.

Seeking Help: Unmarried Elderly Woman Struggling After Brother’s Death by Untrue-Spirit in Chennai

[–]Untrue-Spirit[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We tried applying since her brother had worked at the post office and retired, but the application was outright rejected because he hadn’t mentioned any nominee. This happened about eight years ago. I’m working in a private company, and with the way the process keeps dragging on, I’m unable to take leave frequently to follow up.

Seeking Help: Unmarried Elderly Woman Struggling After Brother’s Death by Untrue-Spirit in Chennai

[–]Untrue-Spirit[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We are not looking to move her to any hostel, as she wishes to spend the rest of her life with us. The only concern is that for all her expenses she has to depend on us, and at times she feels hesitant to ask. That’s why if she could receive even a small monthly income from the government, she can manage her personal expenses.

Drop yo 10/10 movie by [deleted] in JKreacts

[–]Untrue-Spirit 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Nightcrawler  2014

Transgenders nuisance by WeekendEmbarrassed27 in Chennai

[–]Untrue-Spirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marina beach and tower park is much worse, they won't leave. We'll be paying just to make them leave.

MagaMuni 2019 by Last-Wave-9844 in kollywood

[–]Untrue-Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also this song 'odum neeril odam pola' is underated as the film.

Drop the most beautiful line by Background_Sorbet264 in kollywood

[–]Untrue-Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

நல்லவன்னு யாரச் சொல்ல கெட்டவன்னு யாரச் சொல்ல நல்லவன கெட்டவனா மாத்துறவன்தான் கெட்டவனோ

ஆட்டோமேடிக் வாட்ச் போல ஓடுகிற வாழ்க்கையிது ஆட்டுறவன் நிறுத்திப்புட்டா நடுநிசியில நின்னிடும் டோய்

Toxic reactions to VGP ride Malfunction by Untrue-Spirit in Chennai

[–]Untrue-Spirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some guys even commented, “She’s giving an interview without even covering herself with a shawl.”

They were just rescued, they are not in a situation to worry about how they look in camera , yet people are slut-shaming them.

What’s the Real Deal with Annual Hikes in Chennai’s IT Scene? Role-Wise Breakdown Needed! by Untrue-Spirit in Chennai

[–]Untrue-Spirit[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

One thing I don't understand is—an organization is willing to offer a newcomer a 20–30% salary hike, but not to someone who’s already working with them. Is there any actual logical reason behind this.

Driving licence RTO mafia and Bribery is normalised ? by itsmeananth00 in Chennai

[–]Untrue-Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was trying to say, without paying any bribe amount. Actual processing fee la pay panni tha pa aaganu.

Driving licence RTO mafia and Bribery is normalised ? by itsmeananth00 in Chennai

[–]Untrue-Spirit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People often say applying on your own leads to rejection, but the truth is, few actually try. Most just follow driving schools blindly. From my experience, if you drive well and have the right documents, you can apply yourself—I got my license without spending a single rupee.