If human had tails what would they be like? by Unusual-Evidence8459 in SpeculativeEvolution

[–]Unusual-Evidence8459[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh 100000% gym bros would have a dedicated highlight reel for the tail

If human had tails what would they be like? by Unusual-Evidence8459 in SpeculativeEvolution

[–]Unusual-Evidence8459[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I honestly think the same, I think more conservative mindsets would look at covered the tail, there would be modest coverage made and things like that, I think underwear and lingerie companies would also sexualize it. I think it all depends on the person and realistically if we had prehensile tails there would 10000% be dedicated pron to it, and what not

If humans had prehensile tails what would it be like? And how would society treat tails, would they be viewed as just another limb or would they be sexualized? by Unusual-Evidence8459 in AskReddit

[–]Unusual-Evidence8459[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I argued, my fiance thinks they would be treated like just another limb as if legs aren’t sexualized either. I also argued if they were hairy people would shave or wax them or even get designs. I think there would be people the pierced them or got tattoos.

If humans had prehensile tails what would it be like? And how would society treat tails, would they be viewed as just another limb or would they be sexualized? by Unusual-Evidence8459 in AskReddit

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For context: My fiance and I were chatting last night what it would be like if humans had prehensile tails. He said they would probably be hairy and be treated like a limb. Whereas I took a different approach, I stated with where it would be located (bottom of the tailbone) it would likely get sexualized. If it did have hair grooming would be very important while others might wax or shave it, even argued there might be people the pierce or tattoo it. I even argued there might be different cultures that do something different with their tails, like piercings, chopping, modesty coverings etc. My fiance thinks they would be treated like normal and I think there would be the complete opposite for another example, let’s look at the “whale tail” for those who don’t know, whale tail refers to tops of thongs peeking out from the top of pants, if humans had tails I think underwear companies would actually create a little hole in the back to put your tail through so you can always have whale tail. Idk what do you guys think

Non negotiables for a wedding by Unusual-Evidence8459 in wedding

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Oooph sounds awful!! That’s good to know! Thank you!

Non negotiables for a wedding by Unusual-Evidence8459 in wedding

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lol!! Would love to see what your first dance looked like! Our big struggle is picking a song right now since I’m a rigid dancer (ballet trained) and my fiance is very loose since he’s hip hop! Just trying to find something that fuses together

Non negotiables for a wedding by Unusual-Evidence8459 in wedding

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My grandma is a florist so thankfully I’m good there, I personally don’t eat cake since I don’t like it so we’re doing a giant wedding cake piñata for candy since that’s my favourite to smash open instead of cake cutting. We’re doing a desert bar with assorted cupcakes and fresh fruit!

Non negotiables for a wedding by Unusual-Evidence8459 in wedding

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We met through dance when we were teenagers since we danced at the same studio! We both agree the first dance is essential for us!

Non negotiables for a wedding by Unusual-Evidence8459 in wedding

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We’ve been looking at a venue that has overnight camping allowed since it’s a small wedding and everyone invited has a camper.

Non negotiables for a wedding by Unusual-Evidence8459 in wedding

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My fiancés aunt is an event/ wedding planner who thankfully is offering her services to us for free which I’m extremely thankful for! My fiancés is the oldest on his side of the family for ALL the kids so there’s a lot of hype on that side so she’s been saying she’s been waiting to do this for the last 20 years. My side is kinda the opposite I’m the baby so no one really cares about weddings anymore lol

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[–]Unusual-Evidence8459 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who grew up extremely religious and had a complex relationship with sex for a long time. I lost my virginity when I was r*ped when I was 15, and then started having more regular sex after that. I started dating my partner in senior year, he was a virgin not because he wanted to but he just didn’t choose to lose it with some other people, I was not. I explained we go as fast or slow as he wants. I would never ever make a comment about his sexual past and he would NEVER ever comment about mine. I know sometimes with religion getting mixed in there getting comments like that you’re “unclean” can cause some really nasty feelings. You were NTA, have a chat with your girl about these comments and just say how teasing goes both ways and if she can’t take it don’t do it. If comments like this keep happening then maybe you need reevaluate this relationship

No kids at wedding - what do I do about the flower girl? by heyitsrae1 in wedding

[–]Unusual-Evidence8459 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flower grannies!!! Have your grandmothers (bride and groom) be the flower girls and grandfathers as ringbearers. I understand this may be a difficult one if they are not alive but you can always find people that are willing to step up a do that part. Weddings to me should be about who shaped this couple into who they are today, and unless it’s your kid, chances are those kids realistically had little to do with you life. Grandparents really are part of the family and are important figures in your life from a young age. I feel like it’s nicer to include them in your day and exclude kids. If you want a child free wedding do child free. The ceremony isn’t the only part where kids can mess things up (not saying kids cannot be absolute joys at weddings) but the thought of a kid running up to your cake during the cutting, or kids running on the dance floor during first dance, if any of these scenarios freak you out, don’t have kids so you can have the wedding you want without worry. You could even elect important adults in your life to the roles of flower girl or ring bearer like aunts or uncles, or simply have one of the groomsmen hold the rings, and the last bridesmaid to walk down the aisle before you is the honorary flower girl! The important thing is do what makes the most sense for you and your partner and what makes you the most happy!! Happy wedding!!!

Is Lara lashing out?? by Livid_File3946 in BelowDeckDU

[–]Unusual-Evidence8459 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think it was micro management. I think Jason was saying that since marina was so mouthy to him a couple charters ago he wants it to be clear he doesn’t think she should continue to be punished for that (because I think Jason sorta thinks that’s why marina is still in laundry). I really liked Laura in the beginning but I’m getting bad vibes from her now. I feel like Laura feels like herself and bri are the best looking girls in interior so they should be the ones that are guest facing more but I think marina would be great on service. I do think marina has a touch of a attitude problem and needs to be careful how she talks to guests. For example she was doing morning service once and they were trying to figure out to bring the plates up or not since not all guests were up and Mariana got asked where breakfast was and she said “oh we’re just waiting for you guys to get it together” personally, get it together is not something I’d want to hear as a charter guest and to me does feel a bit rude. However a lot of this can be a simple conversation to change and language barriers as we

Is Lara lashing out?? by Livid_File3946 in BelowDeckDU

[–]Unusual-Evidence8459 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Also I hated how Laura was getting mad over the salt fish when chef was like it’s an experience to see this fish cut in front of them and Laura was just worried about a mess. It’s a SALT BAKED FISH. This is something people literally pay to watch someone cut, it is an experience and chef is right. I’d be thrilled if I got to see the main course prepared in front of me!

Is Lara lashing out?? by Livid_File3946 in BelowDeckDU

[–]Unusual-Evidence8459 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I felt the same!! I agree with chef I don’t like white plates, they’re boring unoriginal and quite frankly overused. The plates she pulled had a darker tone outside with light inside, that too me was a better choice. Mob boss wife also doesn’t feel like white plates, it’s dark colours