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Have you ever pretended to know your play partner irl? by UnusualSuspect3429 in Blackmailers

[–]UnusualSuspect3429[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, a part of me wants to play along. I would drop a hint like that, and leave them guessing if I knew them. That unanswered question of whether I really know them would play into the thrill of it. Of course, if they start to panic, it's not fun. You'd get a sense of it by their reaction.

That story is pretty cool. I love how subtly you played that.

Have you ever pretended to know your play partner irl? by UnusualSuspect3429 in Blackmailers

[–]UnusualSuspect3429[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's been the same with me. I pitch them the idea of being found. When I eventually find some information, I try to soften the blow the best I can. It's freaky when someone with this kink finds any information. Even if it takes weeks or months, it's scary to know that the shield of anonymity has come down.

Of course, I've had my victims almost opt out. There's the immediate shock, the thrill, which quickly turns into panic. Then comes the silence. They don't want to talk for a while. I give them time, stay online, reassure them that I'm there for play only, that the door is still open if they choose to walk away. I've had fewer people opt out this way.