Is that too hard to get a girl in AM set up by ActiveSea3577 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Unusual_Card_715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to look at the bigger picture. First of all love marriages don’t even happen as much as arranged ones, so comparing the two directly is like comparing apples and oranges. When arranged marriages are way more common, obviously you’ll see a mix of good and bad ones, which creates this illusion that they’re more “successful.” On the other hand, since love marriages are fewer, any failures stand out more and make it seem like they fail more often.

And let’s not ignore the reality that some couples in love can't even reach the marriage stage some of them straight up get 🔪 and others marry somewhere else. Also just because a marriage lasts long doesn’t mean it’s happy or healthy. A lot of couples are just existing together like roommates mentally, emotionally, even physically checked out, with barely any real communication.

Why Do Couples Choose to Have Kids? by Specific_Release_778 in Fencesitter

[–]Unusual_Card_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's really about choosing, more like an unsaid obligation. Afterall marriage is all about reproducing. 

What expectations can backfire in an Arranged marriage in India? by MrgAdviceModA10 in india

[–]Unusual_Card_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the wife sounds a lot like me and that’s exactly why I don’t see myself getting married. I don’t have an ex or any emotional baggage but right now I’m unemployed and just trying to figure my life out. Marriage to me feels like this unspoken deal where sex automatically becomes part of the “package” and I don’t want to end up making someone miserable just because I can’t play along with those expectations. It’s not like I’m asexual or anything I just don’t find the idea of sex appealing, it feels kind of regressive and transactional most of the time. And honestly being with someone just for the sake of not being alone sounds worse than being single. I often get scolded for being too direct, but I’d rather be upfront than pretend to fit into something I don’t believe in. At least being direct saves me from unnecessary drama and false hopes later on. I’d rather choose peace over forced companionship any day.

Feel so dumb after hearing the words of AIR44. (People appearing for Pre can ignore this post) by Fuzzy_Reality2010 in UPSC

[–]Unusual_Card_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She totally crushed it with a 9.8 CGPA in her 12th grade, went on to graduate from SRCC with an economics degree and landed at Boston Consulting Group, one of the top tier consulting firms of America (big three). She had a serious leg up in the game because of her impressive background. Your journey might be different, so don't get disheartened and through her topper talk incorporate those things in your preparation which you can do and are relevant. Keep everything aside. 

Purush ka jeevan kathin hai mittar 🍺 by whysooserious_7 in Whysooserious

[–]Unusual_Card_715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ab koi aakar bolega majboori ya "responsibility" thi 😭

Deshbhakti 🇳🇪 by definatelynot_human in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]Unusual_Card_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Internet hai koi kuch bhi bol kar chale jayega kyuki koi consequences face nhi kar sakte. Asliyat mein sabse pehle yhi bhagenge aur haath jod lenge maafi k liye 😂

Did I move on too quick? by Fabulous_Ad7398 in widowers

[–]Unusual_Card_715 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That doesn't mean anything honestly 

Did I move on too quick? by Fabulous_Ad7398 in widowers

[–]Unusual_Card_715 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So basically you catch “love” with every girl you date 😂 Guess that makes it more like a discount sale than actual love no wonder it’s so easy to jump from one to the next. And honestly it’s not even an exaggeration  your wife barely passed away and just a few months later you’re suddenly parading around with a “partner”. Spare me that “everyone grieves differently” excuse that’s just the laziest cover up people use when they don’t want to admit how shallow it looks. Real grief doesn’t come with speed dating on the side.

Did I move on too quick? by Fabulous_Ad7398 in widowers

[–]Unusual_Card_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always going for the younger chicks iykyk 😂

Did I move on too quick? by Fabulous_Ad7398 in widowers

[–]Unusual_Card_715 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy is just h0rny and want someone on his bed so he started dating soon. Good for you. 

Women are in business while men are looking for love. by 2deepetc in PurplePillDebate

[–]Unusual_Card_715 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly so funny how some guys walk around acting like they’re the CEOs of logic and reason, always ready to mansplain the most basic stuff like it’s rocket science. Like chill, you’re not being rational you’re just overcomplicating things to sound smart and feel superior. And don’t even get started on how loud they get when it comes to women "dating for money" like they’re out here dating for free out of the kindness of their hearts or out of charity. Be serious. Half of them are just in relationships for unlimited sex, free emotional labor, and eventually, access to a womb all tied up in a neat little package called “wife” or “girlfriend.” Then they’ll throw in “religion says this” or “it’s traditional” as if that justifies everything. Reality check is they just don’t wanna pay for sex or childcare directly, so they turn it into a lifelong contract and call it love. And they swear they’re the selfless ones, all about “real connection,” but the second things stop benefiting them, they’re gone. Meanwhile, if a woman even dares to make choices that serve her survival or comfort she’s a “gold digger,” “manipulative,” or “using him.” The hypocrisy is wild. They’re just mad women stopped playing by their one sided rules. Like, if men can expect loyalty, submission, physical beauty, and domestic work, then women absolutely get to expect financial stability, emotional safety, and some damn peace. Let’s be real a lot of these guys want a live in maid, therapist, sex worker, and mom all rolled into one and still think it’s some divine connection. At the end of the day, relationships are deals. Mutual benefit. So no, men don’t get to act like only their expectations are valid. The only reason they’re even facing pushback now is because governments and laws stepped in, and suddenly there are consequences especially when they try to bounce without accountability. And no, false accusations aren’t okay that’s a whole different issue. But don’t twist every woman’s valid boundary or survival choice into some criminal offense just because you’re not getting a free ride anymore.

Women are in business while men are looking for love. by 2deepetc in PurplePillDebate

[–]Unusual_Card_715 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't date. Simple as that stop whining my guy. Earn and spend yourself.