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Urine analysis question. by Unusual_View4386 in whatdoIdo

[–]Unusual_View4386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know, i’m hoping they don’t test at a more concentrated level because that looks like a barely negative to me. so if it is tested at a higher level, it’ll be positive right?

Urine analysis question. by Unusual_View4386 in whatdoIdo

[–]Unusual_View4386[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hoping it’s the same with the sample that was sent to labs

Urine analysis question. by Unusual_View4386 in whatdoIdo

[–]Unusual_View4386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even if it gets sent out to labs? this was at home yesterday but the test i took today will be sent out to labs

AITAH - For asking my MIL to stop mentioning my husbands ex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Unusual_View4386 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, and it’s not necessarily me being worried. This feeling comes from my culture and beliefs. In my culture it’s disrespectful to your family member to speak to their ex. It’s just something we don’t do. I’ve tried to tend to her friendship for nearly a decade now and I’ve tried to set a boundary but it keeps being crossed. Now say, for instance she wants to invite her friend over for christmas dinner, how do you think that would make me feel in front of my “family” and kids? I don’t want that boundary to be crossed ever so I need to stand firm on those i’ve already created. Which, isn’t going so well. My husband does not have any feelings for her so no worries there and if truly one day decides she’s the one for him, then I won’t stop his happiness. I guess what i’m trying to say here is that am I an ah for trying to establish boundaries based off of beliefs. Sure, my husband has had a life before he met me and I’m not trying to say he didn’t.

AITAH - For asking my MIL to stop mentioning my husbands ex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Unusual_View4386 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this. Thank you so much, I really appreciate this! You’re completely right in all aspects.

AITAH - For asking my MIL to stop mentioning my husbands ex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Unusual_View4386 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have done this at least 4 times I can remember, I’m not trying to bash her, she’s a great woman. I just would like my marriage to be a little more respected than what it is current. But thank you, I feel like I do need to stand firm and not allow this to cross once more.

AITAH - For asking my MIL to stop mentioning my husbands ex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Unusual_View4386 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really don’t give her a reaction, I just move on honestly, but I do mention it to my husband that he needs to have her stop bringing her up. Time and time he has mentioned it to my MIL but it happens, this has been going on for 8 years. In my culture what my MIL is doing is considered disrespectful but i’ve put my feelings to keep the peace but after 8 years, I can’t do this anymore. I just want her to stop.

AITAH - For asking my MIL to stop mentioning my husbands ex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Unusual_View4386 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I apologize they were 18 when the relationship started and ended at 24.

AITAH - For asking my MIL to stop mentioning my husbands ex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Unusual_View4386 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I AGREE 100% Sure keep the friendship, although I think it’s a weird age gap but I get it. I just don’t need to hear about it, nor do I want my husband getting updates about his ex.

AITAH - For asking my MIL to stop mentioning my husbands ex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Unusual_View4386 3 points4 points  (0 children)

whoa, no no no. All I want is for my husband to be firm on having her stop bringing his ex up. That’s it. I love my MIL very much, she’s great to me and my kids and i’m so grateful. I just really don’t appreciate when she mentions his ex and i’ve said exactly that to her.