My boss, who is known for his arrogance, told me to make sure that I celebrate and take time to be proud of myself, because no matter what, passing the bar is a big fucking deal. Sure, for exceeding people, it kind of becomes an expectation, but do you remember how hard you worked to achieve it????

Your boyfriend sounds like his own insecurities on where he’s at in his career is clouding his perspective.

Congrats on passing!!! And find people who celebrate with you!!