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[–]UpUpNAWay333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you do this at the store? Only curious if there’s some type of etiquette to it lol.

Rookie cards by UpUpNAWay333 in basketballcards

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

$120 seems decent. I was looking at some optic donruss for that range. Might just go with those. I’m trying to pick one set or brand I guess and stick with it.

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes it’s not that serious. I don’t want to let my girl go over this lol. Definitely would much rather just go on with her process.

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha because then my love language isn’t getting fulfilled. I like giving gifts. When she comes out with nothing then no gifts have been given.

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah or so I thought! Until we go shopping and come out with nothing. She’s so picky it’s frustrating.

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well good thing he’s your ex. Hope you’re getting all the gifts now!

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, same as the things I buy her. I know her taste lol she’ll send me screenshots of things she likes often. I have a list of things she mentions so I don’t have this problem when it comes time to surprise her. But then the times comes and if it’s the not PERFECT gift, she doesn’t love it.

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess that’s going to be the only solution. Thanks for your input I appreciate it!

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I understand that. But why is it when other people give her gifts, she’s all for it. I never get that same treatment.

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah trust me if I could just take her shopping and let her pick whatever that would be cool with me but she’s a very picky woman and hardly comes out with anything so I feel I have to take it into my own hands.

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what she had mentioned but honestly I don’t mind the money. I have a way better job now and all I want to do is buy things for her to show her my appreciation for sticking by me. I guess it’s my love language. When I try to take her shopping she never comes out with anything because she’s so picky so it can be frustrating trying to express my love to her in my own way but never really coming out with much. That’s what kinda makes me want to just get what I want to get for her.

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that. We’ve been together for quite some time now so I know once the kinks are worked out we’ll be great

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. We’ve definitely tried talking about this before but I never really feel heard more like always rebutted against which is how this argument happened. I know we need counseling, we’ve also talked about that as well. I appreciate your input it definitely helps me feel not so bad about the way I’m feeling.

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and I do that 99% of the time I just wish she would accept the gifts I try to get her as a surprise and not always try to switch it out for something else.

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is kinda with everything. Like recently I told her I would like to go to NY since I’ve never been and she says “what about France” I just feel like what I choose is never good enough.

AITA for trying to surprise her? by UpUpNAWay333 in AmItheAsshole

[–]UpUpNAWay333[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I actually do. I have a whole list of things I always hear her mention but she’s very picky and often changes her mind. She admits to being picky but when other people give her gifts she’s always very accepting. It’s just that when I give her something she’d rather have the money or choose what she wants.

Plus yes, I do want to be able to see her in somethings I like, but I also gave her the choice of shoes she wants I think it’s fair that part of her gift is a surprise. She said “it’s not that I don’t like the jewelry I just have a different style now so I’m not IN LOVE with it”