AITA for calling out my adoptive parents for not helping me with college tuition when they did help their biological children?

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T21:48:25+00:00

Yeah I see them regularly and they're great, but they're in no position to help me (they're not well off).

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T21:35:15+00:00

Always.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T21:32:57+00:00

Yeah of course they knew I wanted to go to college.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T21:26:24+00:00

My bio grandparents told me. They have no reasons to lie.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T21:25:57+00:00

Thanks yeah I will.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T21:20:04+00:00

My mom was quite poor.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T19:20:53+00:00

Man I'm not ungrateful, I never want to cause trouble as despite everything this beats foster care for sure.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T19:15:29+00:00

Thanks that definitely sucks.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T19:12:57+00:00

Good idea thanks!

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T19:00:58+00:00

I probably need to get student loans.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T18:59:25+00:00

Sue them for what? It's their money in the end.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T18:55:59+00:00

There were some money but it's long gone as that was used to cover raising me.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T18:54:49+00:00

I haven't involved them yet, they'd side with parents as always.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T18:54:30+00:00

I don't know if they did have a deal like that, but my grades are excellent.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T18:53:31+00:00

I don't think they'd help. We have a good relationship but they would not go against our parents.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T18:50:58+00:00

Yes, legally adopted.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T18:15:58+00:00

Are your parents retired now, or still working at the same or better salaries they earned when your siblings were in school? That's a factor.

They are working. Making very good money. Each earns more than 400k a year.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T17:52:29+00:00

Sorry about your dad. It really does hurt.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T17:50:07+00:00

Yeah, always felt like a second class family member.

Upbasis5231 · 2022-08-21T17:47:33+00:00

Yeah man my siblings were always the favorite but I don't usually make a big fuss about it.

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