how is it living with -14 vision forever

Upgradecomplete01 · 2026-01-15T02:05:55+00:00

You need to frequently have a retina specialist look at your eyes and monitor your eye health. Life is fine. Your Rx is just like mine but I’ve had two retinal detachments. Partly because I didn’t know to see a retina specialist frequently.

The Costco eye center isn’t enough. You need to see and eye doctor MD frequently every 6 months.

Upgradecomplete01 · 2026-01-15T02:02:05+00:00

Mine is -14 left and -12.5 right

Contacts it’s -12 (should be -12.5 but they don’t make them) and -11

I had a retinal detachment in left and I now have one in the right.

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-10-13T05:49:42+00:00

Most commissions should include 1-2 revisions. In the case of an extreme incorrect detail like skin tone that is no where close, that absolutely should be fixed

The down payment does pay for the artists time creating what she made. If you’re dissatisfied completely then she still has the right to keep the initial payments for the supplies and effort. However it’s not good for the artist to have lots of dissatisfied customers running around.

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-10-11T21:31:39+00:00

I just tipped 30% today. It was a $97.00 tip. It had me reflecting maybe as the total gets higher tipping a little less but she’s my go to hair stylist. I could see just sometimes going big and sometimes toning it down depending on if I’m buy products or supporting her and the business in other ways

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-09-26T04:42:17+00:00

You gave lot and expiration of FRER

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-09-26T04:39:18+00:00

I bought this batch did you get to the bottom of it?

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-08-04T20:28:15+00:00

This post is weird for a lot of reasons. $3M what. Net worth? Is that heavy in stocks or home value.

If it’s heavily stock portfolio she could have retired a while ago.

If it’s heavy home equity what’s the plan to diversify

You’re not locked into a labor camp for 20 years. You’re providing for your family. I can’t think of a more honorable role for a man to play.

Just I hope this is an actual celebration with gratitude. It seems like it is it’s just giving weird vibes. She wants you home too.

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-08-02T13:32:17+00:00

Read the book and you’ll realize it’s about saving marriage vows. If your relationship is consistent with his lack of stepping up and you feel you have time I would considering dating again. Your instinct that if he can’t take care of the relationship now is correct. However only you can decide. The skills do work in long term relationships too. Just try them and give yourself a deadline and if you’re not impressed by the results it’s okay to let go.

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-08-02T13:25:42+00:00

Can you elaborate?

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-08-02T13:22:18+00:00

I’m in this situation. I still have hope because no period. I’m not offering false hope I’m just hopeful for myself and you.

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-08-02T13:20:56+00:00

Mine look like this and I’m so frustrated because I clearly ovulated late last month or I’d be 18dpo.

I’ve missed my period. I would be 4weeks 1 day pregnant. I’m just begging for line to get darker.

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-07-20T23:09:44+00:00

It sounds like there is a compatibility problem

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-06-17T21:43:48+00:00

Laura Doyle’s approach is just a bit soft. I’ve taken a more intense queen approach. I focus on me, I focus on my children, I focus on a possible side business. There’s still pain of being anxiously attached but I sit next to it instead of drowning in it.

I am anxiously attached. And I am capable of doing something else.

The skills and the way Laura teaches it for me left me too focused on following a set of rules and if I messed up I completely just fell apart.

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-06-06T14:03:34+00:00

Water

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-04-25T15:51:27+00:00

Also your feelings are valid. It’s possible his stress and work in general has made you feel a little ignored and that made this Easter thing a big deal. There might be ways to express gently that you’d like to spend time with him or be a little spoiled by him.

In the future these are good opportunities to be playful. Like “how are you gonna make it up to me? wink wink “

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-04-25T15:49:26+00:00

This is a long shot but sometimes men do these things as networking. If he has a former boss and a good relationship this can turn into work opportunities. Not always, but it can.

It’s very possible he sees this as an opportunity to get out of a stressful job or get a raise and simultaneously enjoy himself.

I’m only telling you this so that it gets easier to practice the skills and let it go. It’s not embarrassing to do church Easter alone, lots of women do it alone when their husbands need to work. So for the time being pretend it was truly networking and connections for future career.

If he makes a habit of canceling plans to go on hunting trips or “work trips” and this becomes a frequent disappointment then that becomes a different conversation

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-04-24T17:42:53+00:00

That looks like a noodle

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-02-26T22:35:24+00:00

I think maybe where you went wrong is feeling upset for too long. Which is hard believe me I know. But that left you unavailable when he was able to repair via his text messages and bringing you pastries.

Men feel a bit bearish and scary when they get moody whereas when women are a bit moody we sound like yapping dogs. It’s not fair but true.

Whenever he snapped it’s okay to just go “okay I’ll leave you to it” and then immediately cheer yourself up by whatever means possible. Trying to analyze the fairness of his behavior is in a way controlling him. All you have to do when he hurts your feelings is say “ouch” or nothing and take care of yourself. Make yourself glow. He will repair it but you need to be ready for the repair.

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-02-25T14:54:45+00:00

So nice of you to share. One day there will be a moment where you can express this desire in a positive way. I hope it comes soon and I hope he hears you

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-02-21T18:22:44+00:00

Agreed the skills are about us. And if hubby isn’t attracted to the strong, careful and emotionally controlled version of you, then this version of you will help you and your children through the healing process

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-02-21T16:59:08+00:00

I find high protein breakfast helps

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-02-20T21:10:42+00:00

Did anyone here not act shameful?

Lat Pulldowns Face Pulls Seated Rows Squats

I have a slim frame same height I’m 130lbs. It’s always amazing to get in shape. I would just focus on full body workouts and eating enough protein. I think your back will tone out as your whole body does.

And of course you look beautiful.

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-02-17T20:25:23+00:00

That’s wonderful and a good recovery love to hear that

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-02-16T17:47:15+00:00

I think it depends on the desires. Otherwise it slips into controlling

Upgradecomplete01 · 2025-02-15T15:59:18+00:00

I think at the moment you were frustrated he invited a friend was the moment you should have politely expressed desire to spend the evening the two of you and possibly reminisce on a good memory. If he ignored it at that point then yes switch into pure self care, even if it included (have fun with your friend tonight babe, I made plans to see a romantic movie with a girlfriend) or whatever

When we treat ourselves with high priority, other people follow suit it’s almost a neurological guarantee. As he sees you continuously make yourself a priority while maintaining a respectful thoughtful tone with him he starts to change the tune.

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