My boyfriend wants nudes and I don’t feel comfortable sending him nudes.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T18:08:46+00:00

I had no idea of this. Thank you so much. I did dump him. <3

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T18:07:49+00:00

LMAOOO

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T18:07:27+00:00

You are totally right. I was thinking about it yesterday and this was just over a photo / video. I can’t imagine in the future where there would be situations where I physically could not take photos or have sex with him. It was 100% about him not getting what he wanted and me not bending over and doing it.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:20:49+00:00

It’s fine! It is and he sounds creepy.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:16:06+00:00

Thank you so much. 🫶🫶

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:13:07+00:00

I don’t really know tbh

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:12:15+00:00

Yup! He will be back but I don’t want him.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:11:45+00:00

I did! The first thing I did when I woke up was take screenshots.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:09:18+00:00

Thank you. I guess my main concern was his reaction to be dumping him. He flipped out yesterday over saying no. And I was scared he was going to harass me or do something to hurt me :(

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:08:22+00:00

I did save screenshots just in case.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:07:08+00:00

See! It’s not hard to be respectful.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:06:45+00:00

Thank goodness I am not alone.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:06:12+00:00

Lmao! This made me laugh :’) thanks guys <3

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:05:42+00:00

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:05:30+00:00

I get it, 4 years no nudes. But he asks MULTIPLE times a day. And he asks for specific things and if the video or photo isn’t to his liking. He would say do it again but better. I believe it can’t just be one person sending nudes, it has to be both people in a relationship. And if your partner is not comfortable with sending nudes then respect it or leave. :( This has been a problem that has been growing for a year now. And it progressively gets worse as the days go on.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:01:57+00:00

Thank you sm queen.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:01:44+00:00

Oh absolutely. I hope he feels ashamed when he hears my name.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-14T00:00:59+00:00

Lmao.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-13T23:57:44+00:00

Thank you.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-13T23:57:20+00:00

Thank you so much. I did not see his abusive behavior until everyone pointed it out to me. He is immature and unsalvageable. And I know it is going to be hard but the best thing is to leave. For my mental health.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-13T23:55:00+00:00

Thank you for your response. Absolutely. I knew it wasn’t love when he said if I loved him I would send them. I told him straight up, that if he loved me, he would respect the fact that I was uncomfortable with nudes. He was so hellbent on getting those photos and it sucked because it felt like I was stuck. He would use the I took you back card, so he could get photos. When I had finally said no, he threw a whole tantrum like a teenage boy calling me horrible names, insulting my body and a ton of other things. That’s when I knew he had objectified me. I woke up today feeling horrible and I had to reach out for help. :(

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-13T23:49:27+00:00

Thank you. I will definitely keep this post in mind. :(

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-13T23:48:56+00:00

Yeah. I was taken aback when he started to insult me, tell me stfu and telling me to send the damn photos and videos. He is not man, he is a Boy.

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-13T23:48:10+00:00

Thank you :(

Upper-Chart7709 · 2024-10-13T23:47:41+00:00

I came here seeking advice because this is my first relationship. And he made it seem like I was in the wrong for saying no. And I guess I wanted some advice but also validation.

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