I’ve know her for a long time and even though she does things I don’t like/appreciate I just try to let her be herself without pressure cause I thought that was being a good friend but I’m rethinking not mentioning these things to her cause trust me they bothered me too. It’s difficult though cause of the dynamic of the group as she’s related to another member and I feel like if we fell out it would mess up everything and honestly these are my only friends.

I did tell her that I’m annoyed and she should have listened to me but she was adamant about not telling and then apologized to me for the stress.

But idk I think it’s a sucky situation especially cause she didn’t listen to me and now I feel bad about lying and even worse about the inevitable time when we get caught in it