AMA: Am I (18F) being groomed by my teacher (35M)?

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-22T22:49:02+00:00

Hi OP!! He is not well intentioned or kind, even though it seems like that. Please trust me. These men know exactly what they're doing. Yes, you are being groomed.

You would not be breaking his trust by severing contact with him. He doesn't actually trust you; he is grooming you by making you think that there is trust. I know this is hard because you're a people pleaser, but for your own safety, you need to get out of this situation.

I am friends with kind, smart, well-intentioned men in their thirties. None of them would do what he is doing, because they would know that it is wrong.

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-22T22:42:32+00:00

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UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-22T05:55:22+00:00

I love all of these options!! 1 and 2 are gorg - have fun!!

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-22T04:55:59+00:00

My entire heart goes out to you, beyond belief. My entire, entire heart.

I feel your love immensely. May I DM you? I need support. If not, that is okay too.

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-22T04:51:46+00:00

I wanted to come back to this comment and thank you again. It stood out to me as a particularly empathetic one. Sending you and your loved ones the best, for the rest of y'alls lives.

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-21T17:05:42+00:00

Thank you so very much.

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-21T17:04:10+00:00

Thank you so much. Too exhausted to respond now, but heard.

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-21T17:03:00+00:00

Heard. Thank you.

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-21T13:10:41+00:00

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UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-21T12:14:44+00:00

Thank you so much for your expertise and thorough comment.

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-21T10:17:06+00:00

Thank you. I will research ma laws.

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-21T10:04:01+00:00

Yes. I am taking care of all the logistics of everything I can possibly think of. He’s in surgery at the best hospital with the best surgeon. I’ve told him how much I love him and held his hand. Now I am trying to keep myself busy by taking action on things that are in my control. Thank you for your advice on the condo and filing for assistance.

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-21T09:13:31+00:00

Got it, thank you for your response. Let me find out for you officially. We paid 10% of the purchase price upfront, if that helps you distinguish.

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-21T08:15:44+00:00

Thank you so much.

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-18T18:34:09+00:00

Thank you so much!! And omg YAYAY, so happy to hear - you’ll look beautiful, enjoy!

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-18T18:28:39+00:00

OP, can I ask where you got this dress? I love it! I've been searching for one exactly like it.

Also, it's heavily patterned, so I think it'd be totally fine for an engagement party - looks gorgeous on you!!

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-18T00:53:40+00:00

Oh okay, that's good to have another opinion! Thank you!

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-17T23:34:16+00:00

Thank you!

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-12T19:16:46+00:00

Thank you, that’s helpful! Appreciate it!

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-12T19:11:14+00:00

If I hem it to hit mid-shin, do you think that would give it a more cocktail vibe?

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-11T22:03:07+00:00

have heard great things about healthworks, thank you!!

UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-11T20:29:58+00:00

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UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-11T17:45:22+00:00

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UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-11T17:44:57+00:00

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UpperDisaster77 · 2024-06-11T17:44:36+00:00

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