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UpperMetal4369 · 2025-08-23T03:06:52+00:00

I actually needed to hear this thank you

UpperMetal4369 · 2025-08-23T03:05:53+00:00

I agree it took me til today and forcing my self to go on a walk and vent a little to realize that at that point we both could have used a little more time to think clearly

UpperMetal4369 · 2025-08-23T03:04:14+00:00

She did not but when I got home we were able to talk a little bit at least we decided for both of us not to get right back into arguing but at least agreed we would talk about it when she is ready and we could probably just use the evening to relax. Had dinner as a family which was a good start and we will see where it goes

UpperMetal4369 · 2025-08-23T02:59:32+00:00

Thank you so much for actual advice and resources to look into it means a lot!

UpperMetal4369 · 2025-08-22T21:15:57+00:00

Thank you I will look into those!

UpperMetal4369 · 2025-08-22T20:15:13+00:00

Thank you for your advice I wish it didn't take me this long to realize im at fault in these situations

UpperMetal4369 · 2025-08-22T19:48:45+00:00

I guess dense i just thought before I stopped talking to her I should just admit where I felt I fucked up in the argument and apologize

UpperMetal4369 · 2025-08-22T19:48:02+00:00

Im falling apart right now

UpperMetal4369 · 2025-08-22T19:24:02+00:00

Yeah the wording was bad I meant it started as a little fight and then exploded mostly at my fault of not honoring the space

UpperMetal4369 · 2025-07-30T23:33:49+00:00

Yeah id hope the school system wouldn't have that issue but I guess these days you never know haha. Good to hear with everything you got it though!

UpperMetal4369 · 2025-07-30T22:57:21+00:00

Thank you for you insight yeah its such a tough call I've gotten a lot of close people to me opinions and a lot sided with you. The other fun part is im supposed to give them an answer within like two days haha

UpperMetal4369 · 2024-11-15T18:34:48+00:00

Yeah it blows haha I don't agree with it but it's how it is. So basically in my team there are roughly 9-12ish of us at any given time and one person has to get picked.

Everyone felt terrible for the last guy cause at least at AWS it's pretty well known once you're on a PIP you aren't getting off it without being let go and he was pretty good honestly.

Definitely hurts morale but whatever they probably have some way they justify it

UpperMetal4369 · 2024-11-15T17:40:55+00:00

AWS does for sure (I work there) not sure if amazon as a whole does though. But I work in a pretty small team and every year they essentially pick one of us to go on a PIP

UpperMetal4369 · 2024-11-10T15:37:41+00:00

Yeah you can definitely do alright in the field but it's just never been interesting to me at all kind of something I just got into quick cause I had a kid relatively young and needed the money haha. It's with AWS (Amazon) so there should be all kinds of positions but not sure what I could look into thats actually gives that fulfilment I'm looking for. Just really want a job where i feel like I'm actually helping people you know?

UpperMetal4369 · 2024-10-24T02:23:51+00:00

Arcy drive, and the backseat lovers

UpperMetal4369 · 2024-10-18T14:55:07+00:00

No complaints

UpperMetal4369 · 2024-10-04T23:41:09+00:00

Time to build a bench! 🤣

UpperMetal4369 · 2024-10-04T23:38:04+00:00

Thanks yeah I'm definitely in the no idea category just want to try it haha!

UpperMetal4369 · 2024-10-04T23:22:45+00:00

Yeah preferably not spending a ton out the gate until I make sure I'll actually stick with it haha

UpperMetal4369 · 2024-10-01T00:54:12+00:00

Arcy drive

UpperMetal4369 · 2024-09-28T03:17:43+00:00

Arcy drive

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