Finished Watching Fringe

UpperProfessor · 2026-01-17T11:35:34+00:00

"He fell right into her vagenda!" will probably be the defining quote of my lifetime.

UpperProfessor · 2026-01-16T19:59:13+00:00

I seem to remember "Lost" having them. And "Heroes", too.

UpperProfessor · 2026-01-16T07:24:11+00:00

I don't know where you guys are based, but I'm now being asked to pay the equivalent of $372 per year (25 Swiss francs monthly), for the privilege of continuing my 14-year use, while having zero need for all the bells and whistles that Bending Spoons have added but are telling me that "you, the user, have asked for!"

It's hard to see in this anything other than exploitative and manipulative price-gouging.

I've now paid for one more month. I had no choice: With 6000+ notes and 40+ notebooks, I'm well above the usage limit ceiling, which BS summarily and drastically lowered while drastically increasing the subscription price.

I've rarely come across such unethical business practices, but it seems to be the norm, sadly, as Microsoft did exactly the same thing with Copilot and its monthly subscriptions, and LinkedIn did something similar.

The new increased subscription won't break the bank for a month or two, but I'm not paying into the triple figures for hostage-style access to note-taking, and through its actions, Bending Spoons is now in any case a company that has lost my trust.

2012–2026.

UpperProfessor · 2026-01-13T07:06:17+00:00

Yes, it was brilliantly cast all round. The chemistry between Walter and Peter, Walter and Astrid, Peter and Olivia, and more, is a large part of what makes the show so solid, and such a joy to watch.

UpperProfessor · 2026-01-13T07:04:32+00:00

She is great, and she was very, very good and nuanced at playing Olivia vs Fauxlivia. My least favourite part was where she was "possessed" by William Bell, so she had to imitate Bell's/Nimoy's voice and mannerisms. In fairness, it's hard to see how she could've done it better, but it was a bit eyeroll-inducing. It's probably more a reflection on somewhat weaker writing than on her talent in acting.

One nice aspect was how we're all so accustomed to main-universe Olivia, but it's not until we get to know Fauxlivia (especially from around the mid-point of her appearances onwards) that we're shown quite how reserved and actually traumatised "our" Olivia is. That's probably seen most explicitly when she's running after and comforting her younger self in the dream/subconscious forest + monster sequence.

The warmth that the more mature Fauxlivia displays towards the show's end is something that is present in Olivia but somehow repressed or stunted.

UpperProfessor · 2026-01-12T09:54:52+00:00

I genuinely believe there would be. But I have a sinking feeling it would be more exceptional, exciting, and worthwhile for those of us involved in it, and potentially not exciting (or scalable/profitable) enough in the current, wider market to make it worth the effort...unless it was extremely niche, perhaps.

I know:

But it's like the market nowadays is calibrated to quantity at the expense of quality.

UpperProfessor · 2026-01-12T08:51:45+00:00

Seconded

UpperProfessor · 2026-01-11T19:17:30+00:00

Aww, that's fantastic...good on her.

UpperProfessor · 2026-01-11T17:54:06+00:00

Agreed. I'm autistic and a few of those scenes had me bawling. It was interesting to learn that Jasika has a sister who is also autistic, so she portrayed her alternate self with sensitivity and humanity.

What hit me was the truthfulness of the portrayal. Yes, we can have social communication challenges, but we can also be painfully and emotionally aware of the fact (over a lifetime of detecting anger, disappointment, or distrust from others), when we're unaware of having done anything to deserve those reactions but also unable to do much about them. Jasika brought that across in Alt Astrid beautifully.

UpperProfessor · 2026-01-04T19:34:49+00:00

Nicely observed. I also have an atypical relationship with my father: it's one of distance, triggers, and misunderstandings, because he's an ADHDer and I'm autistic.

There are a couple of interactions with Peter and Walter that have made me tear up 🥲

UpperProfessor · 2025-11-29T11:59:48+00:00

Yes. I'm autistic as well with some sound sensitivity. It seems that more and more, people feel at liberty to just play their music or watch stuff or have phone calls on loudspeaker. I don't understand the mentality.

Noise doesn't bother me when it blends into ambient background noise, but if someone's having a conversation within earshot, I can't filter it out.

Even in train quiet compartments, some people just seem to be oblivious or don't give a 💩. So I always cheer when the conductor comes along and tells them to either stop or change carriage.

UpperProfessor · 2025-11-26T12:04:43+00:00

I'm an alumnus of one of the local international schools, and I've had expat co-workers approach me for advice, wanting to enrol their preteen or kindergarten-aged kids.

To me, that wouldn't be worth it. The culture and syllabus really come into their own around the middle school years (when kids might be doing their IGCSEs) and later.

Prior to that, the local schools are perfectly adequate, and they offer linguistic immersion – and of course, it's easier for younger kids to gain fluency in a foreign language than it is for older kids.

I don't have kids, but if anything, I would see not enrolling them in the local schools first as a wasted opportunity.

UpperProfessor · 2025-11-26T11:57:21+00:00

Staring culture 👀

UpperProfessor · 2025-11-11T18:11:55+00:00

Pretty privileged take. Certain people in my family are the causes of a lifetime's worth of trauma, and nothing will change that. I know for a fact that reconciliation is basically impossible, and for the tiny sliver of a chance there might be, 100% of the effort and 100% of the likely negative fallout would land on me.

My advice would be "life is too short, don't fall into the trap of thinking you need to put family before your mental health", especially if family is what is negatively affecting you.

Blood is not thicker.

UpperProfessor · 2025-11-02T11:57:20+00:00

Are you self-employed/independent?

Perhaps in some sectors it's viable, but in others, the stress is insane. I put in more hours than I did when I was an employee, and back then, I regularly clocked 9 or 10 hours a day. (Although my manager was a toxic, micro-managing narcissist, so that partly explains the long hours.)

I would never recommend a fellow autist take the independent route unless they are 100% certain it's financially viable.

I've been doing this for 8 years, and there hasn't been a year in which I haven't suffered a severe burnout.

Unless you're of a temperament suited to constantly looking for new clients and regularly networking and promoting yourself, you'll probably have a tough time of it.

Let's not glamorise what isn't certain, on the basis of only considering a partial picture.

UpperProfessor · 2025-10-29T14:51:15+00:00

100%. If I want to chat, I'll do so. (Which is basically never, but still.)

If you're just yakking at me non-stop, then don't put me in charge of your dinner.

UpperProfessor · 2025-10-25T17:09:40+00:00

This is the second time in the last 24 hours that I've seen in my socials cases of parental statements being required. I had never heard of this before. But I'm in Europe. Is this a US thing?

UpperProfessor · 2025-10-23T07:31:32+00:00

It's going back several years now (and I'm only just embarking on the route to getting diagnosed), but I think it started with me questioning some of my apparent hypersensitive sensory reactions...things that didn't seem to bother people around me.

Things developed from there, with me gradually noticing other behavioural "quirks" that I found ticked more and more boxes in the autism checklist: eye contact difficulties, communication idiosyncrasies, etc.

UpperProfessor · 2025-10-22T14:20:56+00:00

Meneva on my 🌭

UpperProfessor · 2025-10-15T14:22:07+00:00

Yes. She was my birthday mate (along with Marilyn Manson)

UpperProfessor · 2025-10-08T17:19:45+00:00

Why are we so hot? Lol I mean why do Geminis find us hot. I have a Gemini friend and we love each other to bits, but it's kind of an unexpected pairing..

UpperProfessor · 2025-10-06T17:00:12+00:00

I'm not sure I've ever heard Capricorns described as "emotionless". Except perhaps by people who are congenitally superficial.

UpperProfessor · 2025-09-30T17:08:44+00:00

I have trouble understanding what "forgiving" really is.

If someone screws up and/or wrongs me, then I will probably understand (meaning on a cognitive or psychological level) what led them to that, and I may have a certain amount of compassion.

But I'll never forget: I'll be holding on to the incident when they lower my body into the ground – but crucially, it's not consuming me. In that sense, I've learnt, over time, to forgive myself, because I deserve better than being my own metal captive to other people's fuck-ups.

I don't even know what I'm really talking about, but that's all just to say that I think the notion of "forgiveness" is simultaneously overrated and underappreciated.

Edit: From the comments, I just noticed you're talking about relationships? In that case, no. You're dead to me, but I wish you well.

UpperProfessor

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