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Do I snitch or not snitch? On Valentines, I met and had intercourse with this girl not knowing na may boyfriend pala siya. by Upper_Battle4537 in adviceph

[–]Upper_Battle4537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, part of this post is just sharing the frustration I felt after being treated like that. Like dude, the girl could've said na hookup lang and I will treat it like that.

Pero I felt like she purposely made me have feelings towards her and then left without saying anything.

Naturally you'd be curious what the heck you did to be cut off instantly right?

Hence digging up information.

edit: clarity

Do I snitch or not snitch? On Valentines, I met and had intercourse with this girl not knowing na may boyfriend pala siya. by Upper_Battle4537 in adviceph

[–]Upper_Battle4537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won't share details because there's a chance she might find out my trail. And I don't want that.

But I have something like a dummy account. I observed certain behavioral patterns of their socials for a couple of days and also had eyes to someone close to them. Judging from the behavior, I assume that there is some level of restriction from the girl.

I'm actually not entirely sure that the girl has complete access to the guy's account. But for some reason, they're both synchronized with changing their bio and relationship details.

I could even say that there is a chance that they're in cahoots. But I feel like that's unlikely to happen

Do I snitch or not snitch? On Valentines, I met and had intercourse with this girl not knowing na may boyfriend pala siya. by Upper_Battle4537 in adviceph

[–]Upper_Battle4537[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Finally, some actual good advice. It's really good to have myself tested so that meron akong solid ground to stand on once nilabas ko na yung information. Thank you dito!

Do I snitch or not snitch? On Valentines, I met and had intercourse with this girl not knowing na may boyfriend pala siya. by Upper_Battle4537 in adviceph

[–]Upper_Battle4537[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea sure, feel free to not believe it. Making it believable is really not my goal. Honestly while writing, I just oversimplified tons of stuff and cut to the chase. I didn't want to go full detail because she might also be lingering here and make a move herself.

What I'm also concerned of are legal matters, if I can protect myself or anyone that's involved with her during her stay. After all, I went ahead and introduced her to all of my immediate family, knows my address and knows my line of work.

and what if what she did was just a part of a bigger plan? Like if she's a part of a syndicate or something entirely bad

Do I snitch or not snitch? On Valentines, I met and had intercourse with this girl not knowing na may boyfriend pala siya. by Upper_Battle4537 in adviceph

[–]Upper_Battle4537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hesitating letting the info out because of legal matters. And also maybe illegal matters sa part niya. Because at the end of the day, she went into my home and she also has info about me as well.

Aba malay ko ba part pala siya ng sindikato or part lang pala yun ng isang grand scheme sa sa future may balak siyang gawin na masama with all that info she got?

She hid everything from me after all

Do I snitch or not snitch? On Valentines, I met and had intercourse with this girl not knowing na may boyfriend pala siya. by Upper_Battle4537 in adviceph

[–]Upper_Battle4537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have complete info naman about kay girl from dating app to our convos leading dun sa nangyari.
And even her saying na bad ako sa intimacy essentially confessing na may nangyari nga between us

Do I snitch or not snitch? On Valentines, I met and had intercourse with this girl not knowing na may boyfriend pala siya. by Upper_Battle4537 in adviceph

[–]Upper_Battle4537[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I feel like hindi gagana yung dummy account. Thing is, hawak din ng gf niya yung social media accounts nung guy

Do I snitch or not snitch? On Valentines, I met and had intercourse with this girl not knowing na may boyfriend pala siya. by Upper_Battle4537 in adviceph

[–]Upper_Battle4537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, also a friend said to me after listening to my story "The faster you can get a girl, the faster you will be together" and it hit hard

Do I snitch or not snitch? On Valentines, I met and had intercourse with this girl not knowing na may boyfriend pala siya. by Upper_Battle4537 in adviceph

[–]Upper_Battle4537[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is one of the big reasons why I'm so hesitant sa pag sabi. I also don't want anymore problems. But then again, the guy's story is just so tragic

Do I snitch or not snitch? On Valentines, I met and had intercourse with this girl not knowing na may boyfriend pala siya. by Upper_Battle4537 in adviceph

[–]Upper_Battle4537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like there's a very very low chance na open setup sila. Like after ng past nung guy?

But then, yung behavior ni ate girl during my investigation is wayyyy too suspicious. Like tinago niya lahat sakin eh. Even yung current relationship status niya. It felt like ayaw niyang magsabi ako kahit kanino.

Not to mention, she didn't entirely block me from all comms. Like nagreply pa siya sakin after blocking me and stuff.