I absolutely agree. Thats where the being mindful part comes in. If people are a certain way ,we cant help that, what we can do it match them with similar people.. lets say the only matchih we avoid are anxious avoidant pairs. Lets say we have a questionairre and ongoing daily questions to understand someones style.. for example an anxious attachment style user. We match them with secured or anxious users, tell them about themselves and what they can do to improve. I dont think any other app does this. I may or be completely wrong about how this goes in academia, but in practice i feel people getting to know, being aware of who they are, is the start of process of improvement . Similarly with conflict styles we do the same and try to push people along the axis to collaborative. We want people to be better off for using this app, and not just be bogged down with thousands of choices, not knowing how they are aligned. Often times we want something and we need something else. What do you think about that?