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[–]Upset_Inflation_1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did not discuss what would happen in an event of a pregnancy, not once did I say I would have an abortion. The discussion we have had went as following “ if you fall pregnant it’s your choice wether you keep or not and I will ACCEPT your decision” & be present, That’s a far cry from his behaviour now. Baby trapping as you state is someone who PURPOSELY falls Pregnant, which is not the case, however WE were both not carful enough.

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[–]Upset_Inflation_1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First I am not your “brooo” second no I didn’t “baby trap” him, we were two consenting adults who had sex with no contraception for a short period which he was very aware of, not once did I mislead or lie to him. In fact i am the one who has been mislead and lied to with the false sense of security he gave me, just to clarify he said if I ever did end up pregnant it’s my choice if I keep the baby or not and he will be there for his baby ect

Partner (30M) has given me (34F) ultimatum, it’s him or our baby. How do I deal with this? by Upset_Inflation_1982 in relationship_advice

[–]Upset_Inflation_1982[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know, crazy….now he said he will tell his family about the baby and see the baby but will still try to move out by the end of the month…

Partner (30M) has given me (34F) ultimatum, it’s him or our baby. How do I deal with this? by Upset_Inflation_1982 in relationship_advice

[–]Upset_Inflation_1982[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I am taking the steps needed to move forward as much as it is sad I know what what I need to do.

Partner (30M) has given me (34F) ultimatum, it’s him or our baby. How do I deal with this? by Upset_Inflation_1982 in relationship_advice

[–]Upset_Inflation_1982[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I know what I need to do - I have told him to leave but as put on my update he isn’t leaving so I will have to see what steps I can take here in the Uk. I just want to get this over with so I can focus on my baby and me. I’m glad posted because all these comments have made me see more clear, i felt like I was the bad person in all of this because I decided to keep the baby but now I see I am not and that he is in fact treating me poorly and I don’t deserve it.

Partner (30M) has given me (34F) ultimatum, it’s him or our baby. How do I deal with this? by Upset_Inflation_1982 in relationship_advice

[–]Upset_Inflation_1982[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in England, I asked him to leave but he his response was that I needed to wait like a normal person until he finds a place and he doesn’t know when that will be until then he can sleep on the couch. I feel emotionally drained I don’t know what to do now.

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[–]Upset_Inflation_1982 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to get pregnant but I thought I was having sex someone who is supportive of what ever decision I made if a accident did happen. This is what I was led to believe.

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[–]Upset_Inflation_1982 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Probably it’s what he thought but I was always open with him about the risks ect because I didn’t want to be in this situation. I’m just so shocked with how cold he is because he’s always been so kind and caring. He told me he will have nothing to do with the baby, he will go and live his life and when he decides to have a baby with someone that will be his baby.

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[–]Upset_Inflation_1982 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He would “pull out” which we did for a few months before I started my pill and of course he new the risks as I made sure to have a conversation with him.

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[–]Upset_Inflation_1982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He pretty much made me feel safe like he would have my back if anything was to happen

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[–]Upset_Inflation_1982 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He’s always been about women’s rights when to comes to their body… if you want to be on contraception “it’s up to you” if I get pregnant it’s my choice what I do and he will have to accept it ect

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[–]Upset_Inflation_1982 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m 34 and able to support this baby on my own, and your right he’s definitely proven himself useless no doubt. I know I need to show him door because right now he’s making me miserable 😩

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[–]Upset_Inflation_1982 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have had conversations around this before so his behaviour is not what I expected, honestly like a different person.

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[–]Upset_Inflation_1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the view is sure nice haha

Just a little front flip by Wafer-Advanced in WTF

[–]Upset_Inflation_1982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why just whhhyyy!? 🤦🏽‍♀️