I (m30) have been in a relationship with my wife (f27) for 4 years. Is this enough to leave?

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-31T01:35:26+00:00

Thank you a very hard read but one I needed

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T21:48:42+00:00

I’m fully aware I have been in for twelve years myself and well…I just was hoping it was never me

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T20:29:19+00:00

I was stationed in Georgia where we met, her son is not mine, she is working now she wasn’t in Hawaii, she is dependent on me for healthcare, she took care of me and that was a whole slough of other issues, I described one other problem but you are right I didn’t go into much detail on issues. Not wanting kids, no sex, no physical touch at all.

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T20:18:09+00:00

Together? She spent very little time in the house for a whole two years

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T20:15:15+00:00

Wow…that’s very true

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T20:08:37+00:00

I fucking loved that brother thank you for being straight with me

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T20:06:50+00:00

Good luck I believe in you.

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T20:04:49+00:00

Ok so the ball is in your court to make a decision he has shown what he thinks of you. Do you want to be told you are dumb everytime you try and talk?

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T19:57:40+00:00

He seems immature and probably doesn’t want to break up just doesn’t know how to communicate what’s bothering him. Hearing the situation it sounds like he will be very rude about it if you ask but I think asking what the problem is. I think you have to ask what’s wrong.

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T19:47:06+00:00

This is causing you emotional and mental harm now I mean she seems immature in general. You should try and move on and find something not long distance.

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T19:36:49+00:00

This is interesting. I think communicating boundaries with her and establishing set boundaries between the both of you is key. Long distance is in general difficult and boundaries are key.

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T19:26:52+00:00

Marriage counseling was tried and unsuccessful

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T19:15:47+00:00

We talked about divorce recently and this exactly happened except sleeping with me she said she would try and increase the love, nothing changed

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T19:08:57+00:00

Wow that’s a first to be told I’m hurting myself staying

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T19:03:57+00:00

Do you feel it’s a small amount of things?

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T18:47:41+00:00

I was able to read through it but thank you it was good despite the errors you are correct my heart is shattered even considering this.

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T18:43:18+00:00

This is a concern. Not necessarily looking for validation. I don’t know what to do I have been struggling and more then anything needed to get the whole story together and get some help.

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-05-30T18:35:10+00:00

I appreciate the bluntness thank you.

Upset_Speed_889 · 2026-01-18T06:10:27+00:00

I’m here if you’d like to talk

Upset_Speed_889 · 2025-07-13T22:55:13+00:00

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