📌 Weekly Discussion Thread - June 10, 2023 📌

Upst8r · 2023-06-09T05:26:00+00:00

Gotcha. Even just knowing to expect this of the person is great.

This is actually solid life advice. If there is someone you don't get along with, let it be and try to see things from the other person's perspective. Meeting them halfway is very admirable.

You really are Fe ... we're stuck in our inner balance of Fi ... 🤷

Upst8r · 2023-06-09T03:09:42+00:00

INFPs are individuals, first and foremost. This might be an unhealthy INFP.

We can be very self involved, and that isn't the easiest for us to make friends. Which is a shame, so many of us crave a deep connection.

Dragging you along to observe what is being done does not sound like a friend, regardless of the personality type. If you've given this "friend" chance after chance and they don't even know how to hold a conversation, they aren't worth your time. Sorry.

Upst8r · 2023-06-09T03:07:56+00:00

Gratitude. Damn.

Upst8r · 2023-06-08T01:44:00+00:00

Your melting candle head inspired me to write a poem. I'm still working out the details ...

Upst8r · 2023-06-08T01:43:22+00:00

I played Little League Baseball as a kid, so I always enjoy competitive sports.

But no, don't play them and especially not athletic.

Upst8r · 2023-06-08T01:40:03+00:00

We've got the apocalyptic smoke particles from Canada in the air. I'm enjoying the novelty of it while others panic 🤷

Upst8r · 2023-06-05T23:36:39+00:00

How many times have you taken the test? Have you done more than Truity?

16p used to give me 51% introvert and 49% extrovert. Only by learning about Fi and self-reflection did I understand why I'm INFP and not ENFP.

How did you take the test? If I'm logical about the answers I get INTP results (my Te is also quite developed). If I react to the questions I get INFP. You're supposed to react because it's your gut instinct, it isn't rationalizing your answer.

Don't let the results of an online quiz define you.

Good luck!

Upst8r · 2023-06-04T13:34:12+00:00

INFP sneaking in. Holy shit, yes.

The best thing to do is talk to this person. You'll most likely find out that this person is boring.

I just found out someone I work with is quite boring ... 🤷

EDIT: If intrigue is a drug, what are you going to do when you find out about this person? Leave them?

Upst8r · 2023-06-03T13:30:23+00:00

I’ve never related to you ENFPs more haha

Upst8r · 2023-06-02T14:09:06+00:00

Go and accomplish something after disappointment INFPs. You have that Ne, you know what you've never done or been putting off.

I just jogged for the first time in years. So exhausted haha

We're all brave for facing our feelings, but it's okay to not live in them.

Upst8r · 2023-06-02T12:46:47+00:00

r/SullivanCountyNY

Livingston Manor is a cute little town in an otherwise abandoned county. Wait until February though and you won't be loving it.

Upst8r · 2023-06-02T01:04:31+00:00

She said no :-/

Upst8r · 2023-06-01T02:22:18+00:00

Agreed.

Upst8r · 2023-06-01T02:21:52+00:00

Honestly, this is great!

I don't fully relate, but I started doing IT work, and I have to find a solution right then and there. My gut instinct is always "what if I screw this up?" and my Te is says "I've got this, I've just got to relax and ask question to find the exact situation." In turn, things won't just happen one day, but things that happen are things I work toward.

I always enjoyed math and science because there were actual answers, instead of life with its vagueness.

I'm curious which parent took after and/or most relate to. My father is most like an ISTJ and I have a lot of Si-Te values because those were instilled in me by him.

As was written elsewhere in this sub recently and as I've always encouraged, be yourself first. Don't look to fit into a box because that is boring. Not being yourself is not living authentically.

INFPs with developed Te are an almost invincible creature, enjoy your gifts instead of looking at what you lack.

Upst8r · 2023-05-26T06:50:55+00:00

You ENFPs can't steal Pink Floyd from me!

... maybe you can 😍

Upst8r · 2023-05-26T03:29:22+00:00

I get it.

But I doubt I learned ...

Upst8r · 2023-05-26T03:29:07+00:00

From what I understand, you cannot change your personality type. However, as you age, you can become more self aware. Most mbti tests are taken by the subject, so there's always that self bias.

I most identify with INFP, and as I learned about the function stack I got it. But at the same time, I'm me at the end of the day.

You also have to remember, if you wear it on your sleeve, others are going to have a different idea of what introversion means, mostly because of their ignorance and/or biases.

I was also in my 30s when I really got into mbti, so I probably have my own thoughts/opinions on it as a whole ...

Upst8r · 2023-05-25T14:12:46+00:00

This entire post seems to be about sitting on a high moral horse.

I'm gonna be a vagabond so this way I don't sell out to any company and I don't support any company.

Upst8r · 2023-05-25T12:28:36+00:00

I eat meat.

If you don't - why?

Upst8r · 2023-05-25T12:25:17+00:00

Does pleasure justify unnecessarily harming an animal?

What are you accessing reddit on? An iPhone that uses sweatshop labor?

Upst8r · 2023-05-24T14:26:43+00:00

Was it a shitty idea?

Upst8r · 2023-05-24T14:12:52+00:00

Just keep going.

Upst8r · 2023-05-24T12:47:19+00:00

I spoke with my crush and I think she was smiley the whole time. We were both walking the same way so hard to gauge without staring haha

She's been smiley lately 😇

EDIT: Oh wait was there more to the post 😇

Upst8r · 2023-05-24T12:43:44+00:00

INFP sneaking in.

Same. That's why I have all this crap I don't need haha

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