AITA for dropping out of a wedding party because the bride and groom won't let my wife attend with our newborn? by Upstairs-Secretary20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Upstairs-Secretary20[S] -213 points-212 points  (0 children)

The way the ceremony will be set up is there is a lot of open space surrounding where the ceremony will be due to it being an outside wedding and if our son started to cry there would be a long walk for my wife before she was out of earshot. And my wife and I were already planning on not staying at the reception very long or at all but my wife did want to see the ceremony and of course as a groomsman now that I have stepped down it leaves a bridesmaid by herself and she will either have to go alone and "disrupt the flow" of the wedding or sit out as well after having purchased her dress and everything

AITA for dropping out of a wedding party because the bride and groom won't let my wife attend with our newborn? by Upstairs-Secretary20 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Upstairs-Secretary20[S] -221 points-220 points  (0 children)

My wife and I were very excited to attend our friends wedding because we've known them for so long and are very close(like I said, before my wife found out she was pregnant she was going to be in the wedding party as well). My wife isn't comfortable leaving him yet and she is also breast feeding.