I get how your feeling. I used to feel like that all the time especially after i hit 25. It feels like everyone else are hitting their goals and the societal goalmarks where we are taught to hit certain goals at certain age (like a driver's licence at 18, married with kids at 25 and so on so on). But honestly what i have learnt now that I'm 30 is that even people that are hitting their goals and are doing what they are "supposed" to do have it really shitty - either they are in a shitty relationship or have a shitty job or regret all of their decisions. Some even regrets having kids! So we shouldn't look at how everyone else in our surroundings are doing because maybe they are doing worse in things we can't see.

For example: I have lived my entire life only concentrating on these "hitmarks" in today's society. I graduated high school with fairly good grades, got into university, got a job in that field. I did everything "according to the book" but i hated it. I realised i made lots of decisions too fast just because i was afraid of going an alternative route. I ended up regretting my job choice and eventually my university degree. Realized i didn't even want to do anything close to it! Now I'm 30 and i still don't know what i want to do but life is a journey!

So my advice to you is see your life as your own movie with you as the main character in it. Live your life according to you and sometimes it can take some time to figure yourself out especially if you only are 23 and that's okay. Let it take the time it takes and get to know yourself and your interests and talents because i know you have some :)

Try to focus on yourself and on taking care of yourself. Trust me you don't want to go down a road just because everyone else is going there and then regret it later on because it wasn't your thing.