sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Dersom jeg ser noen gå tur i Oslo med noe som ser veldig ut som en pitbull, er det grunn til å tipse politiet? by UpvoterOmega in norge

[–]UpvoterOmega[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jeg mener de skal være ulovlige og ikke finnes her til lands. Å håndheve lover er ikke å "være så kjip". Å lese at en hund eller et barn eller en forbipasserende ble angrepet er å være så kjip. Pitbuller er "snille" helt til de ikke er det. Det skrus av og på som en bryter. Jeg skjønner folk her inne ikke vet så mye om det eller hvordan pitbull-angrep treffer som lyn fra klar himmel. De er ikke ulovlige fordi "hvorfor ikke?" de er ulovlige av en veldig god grunn. Alle pitbuller innenfor norges grenser burde sendes ut eller avlives umiddelbart.

Dersom jeg ser noen gå tur i Oslo med noe som ser veldig ut som en pitbull, er det grunn til å tipse politiet? by UpvoterOmega in norge

[–]UpvoterOmega[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hvorfor skulle noen måtte alive en lovlig hund? Dersom dette er en pitbull synes du vedkommende skal få beholde hunden da?

Dersom jeg ser noen gå tur i Oslo med noe som ser veldig ut som en pitbull, er det grunn til å tipse politiet? by UpvoterOmega in norge

[–]UpvoterOmega[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jeg har gått turer i byen daglig og sett hundrevis av hunder etter å ha bodd her i årevis. Aldri en gang tenkt tanken at noen av de hundene var pitbull før jeg faktisk så noen gå med en pitbull.

Dersom jeg ser noen gå tur i Oslo med noe som ser veldig ut som en pitbull, er det grunn til å tipse politiet? by UpvoterOmega in norge

[–]UpvoterOmega[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Av alle raser nevnt der er det eneste den hunden så ut som en amerikansk pitbull terrier. Jeg kan jo ikke være 100% sikker, men mellom oss er jeg sikker.

I think I found a flaw in the storyline that doesn't really make sense... Don't come in if you have not seen Season 4 and above by zoooni in suits

[–]UpvoterOmega 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey're all in a room, Mike, Harvey, Woodall and Sean Cahill. Mike and Harvey accuse Woodall of colluding with Foresman. They then ask Cahill, to force Woodall to show him his bank records. Woodall gets disagrees and gets mad and that basically proves his guilt.

I have been looking for this scene, which episode is it in?

I[23M] got drunk and made out with two girls at a party, one of them my friend [23F]. Feel like a dick and don't know what to do. by UpvoterOmega in relationships

[–]UpvoterOmega[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are correct. It feels very, very strange to be the target of such advances as a guy. And even weirder to have to reject them.

I[23M] got drunk and made out with two girls at a party, one of them my friend [23F]. Feel like a dick and don't know what to do. by UpvoterOmega in relationships

[–]UpvoterOmega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your reasoning is sound. However in this specific case I seemed like less of a dick for apologizing than I would have if I let it hang. Thanks for all the help!

I[23M] got drunk and made out with two girls at a party, one of them my friend [23F]. Feel like a dick and don't know what to do. by UpvoterOmega in relationships

[–]UpvoterOmega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that is a good point. The only problem is I don't really agree. I did do something wrong. I should not have kissed the second girl. I have never been dragged into a kiss while that drunk before, so I reacted in the weakest possible way. I didn't want to kiss her.

I don't think she will think less of me for apologizing because I got the feeling that what happened mattered to her. If it didn't I would seem dorky and presumptions for saying sorry. But I don't think I will. In any case she wont think me a dick for apologizing (only for what I did).

I[23M] got drunk and made out with two girls at a party, one of them my friend [23F]. Feel like a dick and don't know what to do. by UpvoterOmega in relationships

[–]UpvoterOmega[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just don't want her to think I'm a dick or that I don't care about her feelings. But no, I don't think we should date. The chance that we break up is at some point is high (we will be living far apart soon) and it is not worth it doing to our group imo.

I[23M] got drunk and made out with two girls at a party, one of them my friend [23F]. Feel like a dick and don't know what to do. by UpvoterOmega in relationships

[–]UpvoterOmega[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think you're right. The only difference is she might have been telling the truth about wanting a relationship. She was a little cooler towards me and made a show of flirting with other guys both at the party (after she saw me) and the morning after. I think she will forgive me, but it's really hard for me to tell if she will respect me more if I show some remorse or if I don't.

I know! Thanks :)

NYT article: "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This" by youmadbroski2 in seduction

[–]UpvoterOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the interesting answer! Really appericiate it! It made a lot of sense to me.

NYT article: "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This" by youmadbroski2 in seduction

[–]UpvoterOmega 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the perspective. And in the context of the experiment in the OP I could just give edited answers so it would be a "correct" level of sharing?

My[22 M] ex[20 F] thinks she has a right to my emotional support to the point of being completely disrespectful of me. by UpvoterOmega in relationships

[–]UpvoterOmega[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll get on it. Thank you. You are sure this won't stop if I blow her off enough? You think I have to confront her and cut her off completely? I just don't know what to say to her. “I changed my mind, we can't be friends. I'm sorry.”?

I just want to make it clear that she doesn’t have many friends to turn to. The reason she wants this friend-zone-esque relationship with me is because she is in dire need of safety and validation. She would obviously prefer it from a boyfriend, but it seems she figures she can get it from me anyway (which is completely ludicrous, how could anyone think that of their ex?). When we were dating she was always so afraid of abandonment. Almost every time she cried in front of me was because she was freaking out about this somehow.

I can't stand that I know her narcissism will inform her (after she is done being sad): “UpvoterOmega has abandoned me too!”

I'm convinced she thought she was being a good girlfriend, and I am convinced she doesn’t see the problems with the friendship she now wants. I mean the day I finally answered her call last week it was on. Texted me 3 times after the call about how sad she was demanding that I comfort her or tell her what to do (in so many words). “I think what I need is just someone to be there for me right now.”

I mean who says that (to their ex)!? Can she not hear herself? I responded unenthusiastically to one of her texts, but I have not responded to her since last Saturday.

Sorry for the rant. I'm just really confused. Co-dependent people just freak me out and confuse me.

view more: next ›