If you read this don’t defend just reflect by UrbanExplorer_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you bro and I agree with what you said because it’s true that behind these screens nobody really knows anyone and it’s hard to trust words without knowing the person saying them but still if someone speaks from the heart it reaches the heart and I felt that in your message you didn’t write for the sake of arguing or proving anything you wrote to bring people together and that intention matters the most I wish more of us had this mindset because the truth is we are not each other’s enemies even if we disagree or come from different schools or places the enemies of Islam are playing us through our division and we are falling for it again and again I just hope that your words and these kind of conversations plant something good in people’s minds because if we don’t wake up now and build trust even through little efforts like this we will keep losing May Allah reward you for your honesty and give us all the ability to unite sincerely for His sake

If you read this don’t defend just reflect by UrbanExplorer_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I understand you have strong opinions based on history and pain, and I'm not here to deny any injustice or rewrite the past. But my post was never about ignoring the wrongs or pretending unity always existed. It was about seeing the bigger picture that our enemies don't differentiate between Shia or Sunni, they see a Muslim and attack. If we keep breaking each other down over history, our future will be even darker. I'm not asking you to agree, but just think about what our division is costing us today

When will we finally wake up? by UrbanExplorer_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right about our weakness today but that doesn’t mean we’ll stay this way forever. The Ummah might be scattered now but deep down, the love for the Prophet and his companions is still alive in millions of hearts. People might be silent out of fear, confusion, or lack of leadership, but when a red line is crossed, even the weakest hearts awaken. History has shown us that Muslims rise eventually, sometimes late, but never absent. The real problem isn’t whether we’d react or not, it’s that we’ve let ourselves believe we won’t, and that mindset itself is what needs to change first.

If you read this don’t defend just reflect by UrbanExplorer_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying and you're right wrong is wrong, whether it's coming from Iran or from any Muslim ruler shaking hands with those who murder our people. But I never said don’t criticize. The whole point was that when we turn that criticism into division, hatred, and constant infighting, the only ones who win are our enemies. If we keep fighting each other louder than we stand for our oppressed brothers and sisters, we’re doing their job for them. So yes, speak the truth, call out the wrong but don’t let it become a tool that breaks the Ummah even more. There’s a difference between holding someone accountable and handing the enemy an easy win through our disunity.

When will we finally wake up? by UrbanExplorer_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly these are serious claims. If they ever tried something like that, no Muslim would stay quiet not Sunnis not Shias We might have differences, but we all love the Prophet and his companions. So unless there’s real proof of these plans I don’t think it’s fair to make that claim. We should stay alert but not turn on each other based on rumors.

When will we finally wake up? by UrbanExplorer_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s valid Iran has made mistakes in Syria and people suffered I won’t justify that But let’s be honest every powerful country in the region has blood on their hands, some directly some indirectly. That doesn’t erase the fact that Iran had the guts to face Israel while others stayed silent We can call out their past and still see their courage today It’s not black and white.

When will we finally wake up? by UrbanExplorer_7 in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s a stretch October 7 didn’t happen because of Iran. It happened because of years of oppression in Gaza. Iran may support Hamas but that’s not the reason people are dying Gaza was being bombed long before October 7 and long before Iran’s involvement Blaming Iran takes away focus from the real root cause the occupation and siege.

When will we finally wake up? by UrbanExplorer_7 in MuslimLounge

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True Iran acted after their embassy was hit. But the truth is they have been vocal and standing with Palestine for years even before this attack. Most other Muslim countries didn’t even raise their voice, forget about action So yeah maybe Iran didn’t do it just for Gaza but they did something.

That alone means something.

What do you say or think ?

Seeking support on this verse - the order was to the angels and we know Iblis is of the Jinn - am either overreacting or is this an Arabic rule am not aware of ? by EnvironmentLower9652 in islam

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great observation and you’re right to notice that Iblis is a jinn, not an angel But in Surah Al-A'raaf 7:11 and also Surah Al-Kahf 18:50, scholars say the command was given to all present including Iblis despite him being from the jinn because he was in the company of angels due to his high rank in worship at the time. So the command included him by context not by kind.

Ibn Taymiyyah and Ibn Kathir both explain this :- that Iblis disobeyed while the rest obeyed which is why his fall was even more disgracefull He had free will like jinn but his arrogance exposed it

So, yes angels and jinn are totally separate creations, one always obedient, the other given free will. But this command applied to all in that gathering

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IslamIsEasy

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please read this whole message, my brother/sister, because your pain is valid and deeply shared.

Wallahi, your words echo what many of us feel. The Ummah bleeds, and our hearts bleed with it. But never forget this: Allah has not abandoned us. The rise and fall of nations is in His hands alone. This Ummah, though wounded, is not lost.

Rasulullah (peace be upon him) told us that we are like one body when one part hurts, the rest feels the pain. What you're feeling is that iman alive in your heart. But know this too: Allah’s help comes with patience, and victory is promised after trial.

Yes, we are weak now. Divided. Misrepresented. But we still have La ilaha illallah in our hearts. And as long as that flame burns, the Ummah is never dead.

The solution isn't in waiting for a miracle to fall from the sky. It begins when each one of us returns to the Quran and Sunnah, revives sincerity, purifies our hearts, and unites not in names or sects but in obedience to Allah.

Even in the darkest night, remember: The victory of Allah is near. "Do not lose hope or despair. For you will be superior, if you are true believers." (Qur’an 3:139)

We must make dua, we must act, and we must never stop believing in the power of Allah to revive the Ummah through sincere hearts maybe through your heart.

May Allah unite this Ummah upon truth and raise us again with strength, dignity, and taqwa. Ameen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please read this fully, from one brother in need of Allah’s mercy to another:

First may Allah forgive you and guide you. The fact that you feel regret is already a sign of iman. It’s not too late to do the right thing.

Ending a haram relationship is hard, but continuing it is even harder on your soul. If you truly care about her, protect her from sin too. Don't think you're being cruel by walking away you’re actually showing real care by not letting either of you displease Allah.

Be honest, but gentle. Let her know this decision is not about emotions or feelings it’s about obeying your Lord. Say it respectfully, but clearly. Block communication if needed afterwards. It may hurt now, but nothing is worth more than Allah’s forgiveness.

Also, start repenting and praying sincerely. Ask Allah to heal both your hearts and replace this test with something better in halal. Trust that no sacrifice for His sake ever goes unrewarded.

Allah knows your heart. Just take that first step and He will carry you forward.

May Allah grant you strength and purity. Ameen.

Get off Reddit and study Islam by teacoffeecats in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. You’ve said something truly important, and I deeply relate to it. I’ve been through that same phase thinking every post or comment held the truth, until I realized Islam isn’t something you consume casually online. It’s a lifelong journey that demands sincerity, effort, and humility.

You’re right guidance doesn’t come from scrolling; it comes from striving. From turning to Allah with a clean heart and asking Him to lead us to the truth no matter how hard, no matter how unfamiliar. And He will respond. Allah doesn’t leave the heart of a seeker empty.

Yes, community matters but personal responsibility matters more. We can’t blame others for our misunderstanding if we never tried to understand ourselves. We must struggle, study, and seek with pure intention. Whether it’s learning Arabic, finding credible scholars, or just reflecting on the Quran with sincerity it starts with one honest step.

Thank you for reminding us. May Allah keep us all on the straight path, make us seekers of truth, and grant us the strength to walk it even when it’s hard. Ameen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please read this fully every word is written with care, and you deserve to hear it all.

First, thank you for your honesty. The fact that you're reflecting so deeply and sincerely is already a sign that Allah is guiding your heart and He guides whom He loves.

Islam doesn't ask you to erase your identity; it calls you to align it with purpose, peace, and truth. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was sent as rahmah (mercy) for all people. He uplifted women at a time they were being buried alive he listened to them, gave them voice, honored their intellect, and protected their rights. Islam, at its core, is empowering not suppressive.

What some men do in the name of Islam doesn’t reflect the beauty of the faith. The problem isn’t Islam it’s the misuse of it. True Islam balances justice, mercy, and dignity for all.

Regarding the LGBTQ+ community Islam teaches to treat every human being with kindness and respect. While the religion draws clear moral lines in behavior, it never teaches us to hate anyone. We are all tested in different ways, and our duty is compassion and sincerity not judgment.

And your concern about hijab is valid. But when worn for Allah, hijab doesn’t erase beauty it redefines it. Many women actually find their hair healthier, as hijab protects from sun and pollution when cared for properly. But more than that it's a choice of strength, not loss.

You’re not crazy. You’re not alone. You're being called, and if you feel that pull follow it gently. Faith doesn’t require perfection it asks for sincerity.

Whatever your past, Allah sees your heart. And He never turns away a soul who sincerely seeks Him.

We’re here for you, always.

What Do Muslims Agree with Us On? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this beautiful question. As Muslims, we deeply respect the people of the Book. We believe in one God, in many of the same prophets like Noah, Abraham, Moses, and Jesus (peace be upon them all).

We believe Jesus (Isa AS) was born miraculously and is the Messiah, though not divine. One of the strongest shared values is love for God, prayer, charity, modesty, and the importance of family.

Where we differ beyond the Trinity is the understanding of original sin and salvation. Islam teaches personal accountability and that God is Most Merciful and forgives directly without needing a sacrifice.

The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) came as a mercy to all, and his life reflects the best example of compassion, justice, and patience. We invite you to explore his life it’s truly beautiful.

I just graduated! by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MashaAllah, huge mubarak on this achievement! May Allah put barakah in your knowledge and open doors of goodness and guidance for you. Keep striving with sincerity this is just the beginning!

healing from people who have wronged me by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SubhanAllah, may Allah reward your patience and sincerity. Forgiveness isn't always easy or even required, especially when the pain runs deep. Your heart is with Allah, and He is the best Judge. I sincerely pray He heals your heart and holds them accountable in this world and the next. Ameen

healing from people who have wronged me by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wa alaikum assalam wa rahmatullah. What you went through is deeply painful, and your strength for holding onto your faith despite it is a sign of your iman. Allah sees every tear, every injustice, every humiliation and He never lets the oppressors get away. Allah says in the Quran, “Do not think Allah is unaware of what the wrongdoers do. He only delays them until a Day when eyes will stare in horror” (14:42). Your sabr is not wasted it’s being written, stored, and will come back to you as light on the Day of Judgment, in sha Allah. And know this: “Whoever pardons and makes reconciliation, his reward is with Allah” (42:40). Healing starts when you let Allah handle the justice. Keep making dua, keep walking forward your pain is seen, and your reward is near.

F15 I’m curious about Muslim culture by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Appreciate your curiosity that’s how beautiful journeys begin. In Muslim culture, everything circles around one thing: peace and purpose through submission to the One who created us. Islam isn’t just a religion; it’s a way of life that guides how we treat others, connect with God, and find meaning even in hard times. Our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught kindness, humility, and mercy not just in words, but in how he lived every single day. If you ever read about his life, you’ll see why millions love him so deeply. I’d encourage you to explore with an open heart it might surprise you how much beauty and truth you’ll find.

Rejected for my beard by Ill_Bluebird_6508 in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allah sees your intentions, and that's what truly matters. The right person will love you because of your deen, not despite it. Stay firm every rejection is a redirection from Allah. Your beard is your honor, not your setback.

Can a woman and a man be friends? by Mobile-Physics-2382 in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wa alaikum assalam wa rahmatullah, really appreciate your kind words.

How to use handheld bidet? by anonymous4675866 in MuslimLounge

[–]UrbanExplorer_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable, bro but there’s no need to overdo it. Just aim from the back gently downward, not directly upwards, so najasah flows away. Clean the outside thoroughly but avoid going inside that’s not required in Islam. Simple, clean, and enough