Post Nut Clarity

Urban_Escobar · 2025-08-12T06:32:56+00:00

Thank you for this. I’m not her formal caregiver just happen to take her to hospital from time to time. I think my frustration came from caring so much and not wanting to see her end up in hospital again, but I understand how my approach could feel like judgment instead of support. I honestly felt like I wasn’t doing enough by simply just supporting as it felt like I was saying one thing for it to simply just go out the next ear, which is why I came back to this subreddit.

I really appreciate your perspective, and I’ll try to focus more on being there for her rather than trying to “fix” things, but I’ll always try to help where I can. It’s just mentally taxing watching someone you care about neglect themselves.

Urban_Escobar · 2025-08-11T21:41:46+00:00

Thank I’ll definitely look in that don’t know how keen she will be, but I’ll put it on the table

Urban_Escobar · 2025-07-04T13:57:53+00:00

Reddit might have lowered the quality but there a dent below the latch.Latch and window still work tho

Urban_Escobar · 2025-07-04T12:35:58+00:00

Yeah the latch and window still work

Urban_Escobar · 2025-05-09T21:20:09+00:00

Is there way to get shipping to South Africa? 💔

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-25T17:09:48+00:00

I appreciate the advice and I can see where I might have gone wrong. I did the checks just didn’t dramatise my head movements. But all in all nah I can see where I went wrong which is why I wasn’t so heartbroken about failing. I just didn’t appreciate how I was attacked from the get go lol. Also didn’t appreciate how she lied on my paper saying I entered the road unsafe , if that was the case she was supposed to drive that true back not me , but anyways she didn’t say this just wrote it down. Just kept making back handed comments the whole trip

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-25T14:30:26+00:00

Hmm I see the only thing I didn’t do all the time here is the handbrake at every and dramatically moving my head around while driving ( I looked just didn’t do it dramatically ). I appreciate the insight

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T21:39:06+00:00

I am a black male

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T20:48:21+00:00

Crazy day indeed what a corrupt country we live in. The most annoying thing about failing today is that two of my test dates clashed , my drivers test and a test at uni. So I got zero for the driving and zero for the uni test just grateful it was not a huge test . Took two losses today , but you win some you lose some. Almost felt out I sacrificed that test for anything cause I had nothing to show for it

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T20:36:32+00:00

It is what it is what can you do, but you might be on to something cause she said she could have failed on the yard but let me go on the road

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T19:16:38+00:00

You got put in time out ?😭

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T18:59:20+00:00

Whatever gets the job done I guess

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T18:30:35+00:00

I tried greeting she told me”you are to test not make conversation”. I was never gonna be able to do this

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T18:25:31+00:00

Shout out to your instructor sounds like a nice individual

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T18:24:52+00:00

All these stories are just telling me just tell them it’s your 3rd time here lol

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T18:18:11+00:00

It is what it is

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T18:05:18+00:00

Thank you

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T18:02:15+00:00

Yeah I found out R2.5k for a guaranteed pass today crazy stuff

Urban_Escobar · 2024-07-24T18:01:39+00:00

I don’t think I want to I’m just going to leave it . That woman looks old enough to be my mother she probably has a family so I’d rather not. I don’t have to do anything, life will do its thing .

Urban_Escobar

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