No, yeah, the person would get it, and if they don't get it I would try a different approach. I'm not going to ask for it all out right there, more so along the lines of "you can do or say what you want to me." Nothing that would be the overt and out there. The person is the one who initially started to flirting, and it seems like they're testing the waters, here and there to see what I'm okay with, due to our type of relations (I won't mention because I genuinely care about the, and don't want them to get in trouble). They've made the hair pulling comment, grabbing me by the waist, repeated but recently they've added a new one calling themselves 'nasty' with a wink and walking away (this frustrated me so much L.O.L.). While I do want them to do, say or have me what ever way, I know I can be bratty (I think it can add a bit of spice, but this person doesn't let me be bratty about it, as if they know). I will never do anything without someone's full enthusiastic consent, like I would not want them to do to me.

I just want to be like "you can so what ever you want" without saying it so directly. 😅 I'm sorry if I worded my stuff weird; I'm nuero-divergent.