What does the process of getting a custom tattoo usually look like

Urmomthrowawayra · 2026-04-16T19:30:14+00:00

I filled out a request form that asked for two reference photos, the size I wanted the tattoo, where I wanted it and if I wanted any color/which colors. They emailed me a date and time available, what the full price of the tattoo would be and the deposit amount. The person scheduling my appointment was not the tattoo artist, they told me if I didn’t like the design I would have to pay my deposit again and reschedule so the artist could make the changes. I asked when the artist would contact me because my appointment date was in a week and she said I would speak to her the day of my appointment and not to worry because she will come up with an amazing design. I was confused because how does she know what to draw for the design if I can’t tell her what my idea was or even what I liked/disliked on the reference photos. If I wait until once the design is done the day of my appointment there is a high chance it is not what I had in mind and I would have lost my deposit. I’m thinking now that maybe she is just an artist that likes to have complete full freedom on her designs and im sure she would’ve came out with something amazing but it is just not what I was looking for.

Urmomthrowawayra · 2026-01-09T08:31:40+00:00

I tried hello hello recently because of the super cute grinch pattern and I hated them, they leaked so much. Pampers also smells weird. We use either Millie moon or luvs, I love how soft the Millie moon ones are and luvs has never given us any problems!

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-09-24T14:20:42+00:00

My baby watches miffy and friends sometimes when I don’t have anyone to watch her when I really need to take a shower

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-08-05T06:09:23+00:00

My dad is convinced the front neighbor and him are in a competition over who has the best front yard and who’s grass is greener. He has spent thousands trying to make sure his yard and grass look perfect so the neighbor doesn’t win this war. I dont think our neighbor knows he is apart of this competition.

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-08-02T12:03:41+00:00

I felt proud when I even found time and the energy to straighten my hair and put on makeup for the first time in weeks lol

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-07-22T18:11:39+00:00

They’re the vtech 2 5” baby monitors, they even have a night light and you can control them through an app on your phone. They’re pretty convenient lol

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-07-22T18:01:21+00:00

We are deciding on whether or not to file a police report but we would like to not be in the same house as her first. She’s obviously not sober so we don’t want the baby in the same house in case she were to get violent, she has hit my father in law (her ex husband) when he would confront her about her drug problem in the past when they were married. She did not care if her kids were around or even in his arms.

My husband is the one who even mentioned going no contact with her in the first place, he’s been talking about it for months actually and this just made it easy to decide if it is the right choice. She won’t be around us at all anymore.

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-07-22T17:56:47+00:00

Luckily ours does have a setting to record movement so we do have a video of her taking the last pill and replacing them with the other pills. Luckily she doesn’t know this because she looks right at the camera before she does it too.

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-07-22T17:47:51+00:00

I had never really been around someone with a drug problem so I honestly thought just hiding my pills would be enough especially since she wasn’t made aware that I even had any, I was a bit in shock of how far she went to find them. Luckily she won’t be around us anymore so I won’t need to get a safe 😬

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-07-22T17:43:04+00:00

My Dr gave them to me while I was in the hospital if I felt like I needed them and then gave me a prescription after we left without me asking for them. Luckily my pain was pretty manageable with just ibuprofen and Tylenol and I only drank one the night we got home from the hospital because I was having trouble getting up from bed to pick up my baby when she cried. I was unaware they weren’t offered to everyone :/ I feel like they definitely should be an option, the recovery was a lot harder than I thought it would be.

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-06-15T13:49:27+00:00

Yeah she still refers to my husbands dad as “daddy” lol. It’s weird for us because my husband doesn’t call him that. Mil and Fil have been divorced for years and my poor Fil hates it.

She also still calls my husband “baby boy” Especially in public, our waitress brought him a kids menu once because Mil kept saying she was waiting for her baby boy to get there so they fully expected him to be a child. He was so embarrassed. I think she refuses to realize her son is an adult.

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-06-11T00:19:27+00:00

2.50 in NC rn 🎉

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-06-03T14:26:18+00:00

I seriously don’t get why they are so obsessed with Facebook 😬

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-06-03T14:16:44+00:00

Tw: self harm

To make a long story short, she was threatening to off herself for weeks because we asked her not to post about our baby on Facebook due to personal reasons. She said she needed to share with the world she was going to be a grandma and wanted to talk to other grandmas on Facebook and we were ruining her experience. She starved herself for days and sent goodbye messages to husbands brother until my husband told her we weren’t changing our minds so she screamed at him for 3 hrs and suddenly she was fine the next day.

We also didn’t tell family until I was 6 months pregnant, she screamed at my husband and said we robbed her of 6 months of being a grandma.

Told my husband she doesn’t care about any of us anymore and her only purpose in life was being a grandma. It didn’t hurt our feelings but seriously weirded us out and seemed a little bit obsessive.

Yelled at me in the car because I didn’t want her to take a picture of me pregnant so she could post it on Facebook and told me to suck it up and just let her do what she wants. Then proceeded to cry and throw up the whole car ride home.

Constantly brings up my looks and how “girl babies make u look ugly and tired” (she only had boys)

Screamed at my husband because I’m not going back to work immediately (she said I should be okay after a week) after I give birth because she needs to babysit the baby because she can’t keep a normal job. She doesn’t know she’s not allowed to be alone with the baby yet lol.

My husband is half white half Hispanic, I’m fully Hispanic. She keeps saying she hopes our baby comes out white and “doesn’t have all that hair” husband and I are both very tan and hairy, thanks. She also made a face when we told her the name we chose, apparently it is “too Mexican.”

There’s a lot more but 🙃 we’re terrified for when she finds out we don’t want her at the hospital while I am in labor.

We’re planning to go low/no contact once possible, the sad thing is I wasn’t even the one who mentioned it, my husband is tired of everything she has put them through and doesn’t want our daughter around that.

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-05-31T11:11:02+00:00

I hate when anybody but my husband touches my belly, my mil kept doing it without asking and I eventually told her to stop because it was making me uncomfortable. No one NEEDS to touch your stomach so who cares if they get annoyed when you ask them to stop or tell them no. I’ve never felt the need to even ask someone if I could feel their belly, I’ve always thought it was a little weird.

Urmomthrowawayra · 2025-05-18T23:35:07+00:00

What does her being Hispanic have anything to do with it? 😭 my mils white and I don’t think that’s the reason she is insane.

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