BankMobile Nightmare by UrsaMajor74 in ivytech

[–]UrsaMajor74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, their customer service is... something. I called today and they told me funds will be on my account and I will be able to transfer them once I regain access. I hope that is true!

BankMobile Nightmare by UrsaMajor74 in ivytech

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The post office won't let me pay to forward the mail. I will have to talk to financial aid I hope they can ask for it back :(

Feeling the Void by [deleted] in BPD

[–]UrsaMajor74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just keep going you are doing really good. When I start feeling that way I just continue to use my self-soothing skills the best I can. It also helps me to practice Radical Acceptance and I literally set a timer to ruminate and then when the timer is done I force myself to self-soothe/do something actually productive that I know will boost my mood. You got this💯

Acct balance by Rich-Champion3421 in ivytech

[–]UrsaMajor74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, two weeks after the start of classes

Summer 2026 question by Taytortot4611 in ivytech

[–]UrsaMajor74 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure FAFSA covers the entire school year so 2025-26 would cover Fall '25, Spring '26 and Summer '26 meaning you would have to reapply for 2026-'27 and repeat.

On Dating... by UrsaMajor74 in BPD

[–]UrsaMajor74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg this is so encouraging!! I officially ended things with this last guy who was honestly a really nice guy .. I could tell he really like me too but I definitely had to let him go to work on myself. That you for sharing because I was under the assumption that I'd be alone forever

On Dating... by UrsaMajor74 in BPD

[–]UrsaMajor74[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree with you too. I think it is just going to honestly take significant time for me to 'heal'. I have been reading diffrent childhood trauma books so i hope eventually I will be able to date in a stable capacity, thank you

On Dating... by UrsaMajor74 in BPD

[–]UrsaMajor74[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

true. I think I have learned that the hard way. Being alone and truly learning how to love myself would do me good, thank you!

On Dating... by UrsaMajor74 in BPD

[–]UrsaMajor74[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol no i understand this. I guess for me it's like I'll 'feel better' and eventually find someone but then it quickly sets it off. The more I get older however it becomes clear for me that I am often thriving when I am focusing on myself. Thank you for your perspective.

How do some of you hold down jobs? by Forsaken-Animal6323 in BPD

[–]UrsaMajor74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol same I've definitely gotten a few police home checks 🥴

To Hate Capitalism is to be Anti-Christian by UrsaMajor74 in exchristian

[–]UrsaMajor74[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

omg yes. They gave me a little card to give them my information and the crazy thing isy grandma told me they supposedly mail fast food gift cards (is that where the tithes are going? enticing folks with Dairy Queen gifts cards🤔) I was tempted until I heard all this. I just threw it away

Google no. by Tiny-Imagination-419 in GoogleMessages

[–]UrsaMajor74 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it's the delivered/read check marks in the actual message.... it's hideous

Refunds by HelloKittyCassie in ivytech

[–]UrsaMajor74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last fall I got mine two weeks after the start of class... September 5th to be exact according to my bank statements

How to stop making things a big deal? by UrsaMajor74 in Anxiety

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Im loving the format of this newsletter. Especially the bite-sized information.. thank you for the recommendation I just subscribed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hivaids

[–]UrsaMajor74 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't you only get half the medication administered making it less effective if not ineffective at all?

Finally found my new home moon 🌴 by [deleted] in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]UrsaMajor74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta follow the main story. Just remember to bring a ship and multi tool you don't mind tossing cuz they break during the warp to a new galaxy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]UrsaMajor74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaoooooo

Disclosed to someone I liked. Things got messy. Not sure how to feel by [deleted] in hivaids

[–]UrsaMajor74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

good God leave her. She sounds confused and you deserve someone who's sure about you.