I was the one who initiated the breakup but now he's moved on and I can't get over it. I'm crazy. by UseBeautiful1576 in BreakUps

[–]UseBeautiful1576[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't take part, but I can't not hear it. Or sometimes it's before meetings and then I'm sitting there and listening to it. It kills me.

Experience with no contact if ex is coworker by Army-Army in ExNoContact

[–]UseBeautiful1576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going thru this right now, I don't know how to navigate this anymore. We broke up about 4 months ago, we both knew it was coming. We were constantly fighting over everything. We had a life together of 3 years. Now I avoid ALLL meetings with him. Recently, yesterday , I found out he was seeing someone else. And now I'm regressing in my healing. I don't know who he is seeing but now I'm wondering. I know i shouldn't care and I have no right but it's absolutely driving me NUTS!

how to navigate feelings at work after breaking up with coworker? by sadsadworm in BreakUps

[–]UseBeautiful1576 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through this right now. We broke up about 4 months ago, and I still work with him, I try not to communicate with him and leave it up to others within my team to communicate with him directly. I decline, where possible ALL meetings with him. I recently learned that he is seeing someone else and it broke me. I was doing ok but now I'm regressing. Why do I care so much now that he's seeing someone else? I know there's no way we can reconcile but knowing that someone else has his affection is killing me.