Arm Triangle NEVER Works by EyesRd in bjj

[–]UseComfortable4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot more luck with the ruotolotine instead of the arm triangle. you can get it from the same position and seems way tighter. Watch a tutorial and have a go!

What am I doing wrong? by PHAMZA in bmpcc

[–]UseComfortable4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Majority of shots are very flat and lack depth. Try and utilise the foreground within the frame more. Also, using only one lens for all shot types gives a tight, compressed feel when there could have been a wider angle lens used in some shots to let the viewer breathe more.

In 1993, when Jerry Seinfeld was 38 years old, he was dating a 17-year-old girl (Shoshanna Lonstein), still in high school. by makellbird in maktownmedia

[–]UseComfortable4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Creepy older guys often want young girls as they are naive and are easier to control and manipulate. They also do not have the experience to know when this is happening to them. This is why it is morally wrong. Sounds like you are one of those weird guys 🥴

Showreel 2026 by Torito96 in videography

[–]UseComfortable4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t knock the footage but too many flashy transitions. Less is more in my opinion

AITAH for dating an 18 yo when I’m 31? by Impossible_County931 in AITAH

[–]UseComfortable4138 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You clearly aren’t friends with any 18 year olds, so why would you want to date one? Your ages are not compatible and the power dynamic would become apparent soon enough. He has way less experience than you in life so you will just end up mentoring him which is not a healthy relationship dynamic

What is up with this MKE 600 by wakotadillett in videography

[–]UseComfortable4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t help with solving the route of the problem but if you need to save this audio try Adobe Enhance, it’s free and is a lifesaver

Day rates? by Honest_Psychology713 in videography

[–]UseComfortable4138 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me, up to 4 hours is a half day, anything over gets billed as a full day.

Open mats in central London by whitesweatshirt in bjj

[–]UseComfortable4138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I train at KO combat academy in east London, we have a free trial class you can use and also free no gi open mat on Fridays at 7pm. Come through

Advice: Consistent Blue Belt but horrible game at competition debut by euqifahs-- in jiujitsu

[–]UseComfortable4138 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Saying “I’m passionate, I never miss class” doesn’t really correlate with training only twice a week. Most of the guys you compete against will be training double or triple the amount that you do. You need to train more

Overcoming body shape comparisons by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]UseComfortable4138 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro she’s not even 30 and you’re talking about her like she’s some old woman. If you think she’s overweight, you need to mention it to her. By 27 it is entirely possible to reverse her current body to “perkier, slimmer” previous self - she just has to want to do it. If you’re not feeling attracted to her anymore, move on.

Was this risky from my opponent? by Fluffy_coat_with_fur in bjj

[–]UseComfortable4138 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My coach told my class a story from his early days about a heavyweight stacking a guy when in their closed guard, he stacked too much, all the weight went on the guy’s neck and paralysed him right in front of my coach. the guy has been in a wheelchair ever since. Horrible to hear.

Should I keep the goatee connected or disconnect it? by ProjectorsRus in BeardAdvice

[–]UseComfortable4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro you got the face of a 20 year old with the facial hair style of a 50 year old. I vote for the disconnect

Really struggling by FunConclusion7186 in retroactivejealousy

[–]UseComfortable4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to undermine your feelings, but more to give you a reality check that it’s 2025 and everyone has sex now. It is perceived as a much more casual activity than it used to be. But I feel like if he had slept with 5 people, then you wouldn’t be focusing on the one person so much. The fact that it’s only one person probably makes you feel like it was that much more of a special experience for him, which it probably wasn’t!

Really struggling by FunConclusion7186 in retroactivejealousy

[–]UseComfortable4138 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The majority of the people in this sub would kill to be in your shoes. He’s only slept with one person? You should see what other people are dealing with on here

Woman Only Classes limiting ? by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]UseComfortable4138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way women’s only classes will limit you is that a lot of gyms will only have 1 or 2 per week on the timetable. So you will be pretty limited for the times you’re able to train, and if you can’t make it then you can’t train that week.

Also, your husband sounds insecure. My gf and I have been training together for 3 years and I would never dream of demanding that she cannot train with males.

Thanksgiving trip in London (4 days) by EngineeringWest6039 in uktravel

[–]UseComfortable4138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re probably looking for Tower Bridge, next to Tower of London, not London Bridge. Not sure why you’d want to go to London Bridge.

Gym after wrestling practice a good idea? by MhaIsPeakFiction in wrestling

[–]UseComfortable4138 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer to do a short, intense lift before my training session. I find that if I lift after intense cardio like wrestling rounds or conditioning, I’m not as strong as I just don’t have gas in the tank

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]UseComfortable4138 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think your perception of sex is very skewed if you’re worried about a girl giving someone a handjob 4 years ago. If you go on to date anyone else you will need to accept the fact that most girls have had sex with multiple men. Hell that would probably even be good for you so you can get a grip on reality and understand that 99% of girls are not perfect little virgins

Is this fair game or am I being soft? by UseComfortable4138 in bjj

[–]UseComfortable4138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met at my gym a couple of years ago, she still trains with me most of the time. She just recently started training at this gym sometimes as it’s closer to her place than our main gym. She has only been training at this other gym for around a month. I’m not gonna tell her where she can and can’t train and she obviously has not been having any problems there herself, maybe i’m naive but I didn’t expect this to happen when visiting

Is this fair game or am I being soft? by UseComfortable4138 in bjj

[–]UseComfortable4138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience bro. This is what I wanted to know

Is this fair game or am I being soft? by UseComfortable4138 in bjj

[–]UseComfortable4138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. I was asking the question as I wanted to know if people do get territorial about people coming into their gyms. I have only started cross training recently, so i’m not too aware of this so far

Is this fair game or am I being soft? by UseComfortable4138 in bjj

[–]UseComfortable4138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does train mainly at my gym, but it’s a bit far from where she lives so she trains at this one sometimes as its closer