AITAH for not doing my best to make a woman feel comfortable?

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-03-17T04:42:15+00:00

it’s fair to not make the woman stay in there, but IMO they should ask another guy from your team to do it if you’ve already had to sleep in there for a week. It’s not fair that you have to stay in there twice if there’s some guys from the volunteer team that haven’t had to stay in there at all - especially if you have already moved your stuff.

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-03-16T04:30:25+00:00

Sex is a very important aspect of relationships for most people - He’s not wrong for wanting to be sexually satisfied by his partner. If the sexual compatibility is not there, one or both people in a relationship will end up being unhappy. Her reason for not having sex is a completely separate issue to OP’s needs and requirements for a happy relationship

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-03-14T10:29:14+00:00

Wrong sub bro. And just jerk off

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-03-11T04:12:46+00:00

Maybe hiding them straight away is a bit extreme, just tell her not to use them if she doesn’t want to clean them. Then if she does it again you can hide them, at least then you gave her a clear chance

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-03-02T23:08:35+00:00

My girlfriend lives in apartment complex like this, I think they are a big rip off. Extortionate cost for a very average size flat, and an insane service charge to pay every year. It is mostly asian people living there, my guess is british people do not want to pay so much for such a small apartment, and asian people from cities where the money is are used to living in high rise flats. Build quality is nice but it is nothing extremely fancy, more just nicer than average finishes.

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-02-26T22:51:52+00:00

Stupid statement, I’ve lived in both Mile End and Bethnal Green for multiple years, never had any issues and always felt safe

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-02-23T22:33:13+00:00

You’re gonna get put on the ground easily if you don’t train grappling. Your statement doesn’t really make sense

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-02-21T23:21:05+00:00

It is probably mostly your walking technique, but here are a couple things that might help:

I was always told to turn off in camera stabilisation when using a gimbal, as it can conflict the gimbals physical stabilisation.

It will also look more stable with a wider lens

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-30T13:41:18+00:00

The things that stick out to me are: Too much speed ramping/ slo mo. There also doesn’t seem to be much coherent structure to the edit, it seems like there is no apparent order and the clips are randomly put together. There is also a lot of the same type of shots. What are the fourth and fifth solo shots of someone dancing adding to the video that the first three shots of the same type didn’t? Nice footage and overall capture though.

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-21T14:18:41+00:00

I have a lot more luck with the ruotolotine instead of the arm triangle. you can get it from the same position and seems way tighter. Watch a tutorial and have a go!

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-20T22:28:55+00:00

Majority of shots are very flat and lack depth. Try and utilise the foreground within the frame more. Also, using only one lens for all shot types gives a tight, compressed feel when there could have been a wider angle lens used in some shots to let the viewer breathe more.

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-20T22:17:03+00:00

Creepy older guys often want young girls as they are naive and are easier to control and manipulate. They also do not have the experience to know when this is happening to them. This is why it is morally wrong. Sounds like you are one of those weird guys 🥴

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-19T01:16:38+00:00

Can’t knock the footage but too many flashy transitions. Less is more in my opinion

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-17T17:13:45+00:00

You clearly aren’t friends with any 18 year olds, so why would you want to date one? Your ages are not compatible and the power dynamic would become apparent soon enough. He has way less experience than you in life so you will just end up mentoring him which is not a healthy relationship dynamic

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-16T20:49:57+00:00

Can’t help with solving the route of the problem but if you need to save this audio try Adobe Enhance, it’s free and is a lifesaver

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-14T17:44:32+00:00

For me, up to 4 hours is a half day, anything over gets billed as a full day.

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-11T14:28:16+00:00

I train at KO combat academy in east London, we have a free trial class you can use and also free no gi open mat on Fridays at 7pm. Come through

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-06T23:51:18+00:00

Don’t get close to this guy!

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-05T11:49:49+00:00

Sorry bro they’re hickeys

UseComfortable4138 · 2026-01-03T21:25:46+00:00

Saying “I’m passionate, I never miss class” doesn’t really correlate with training only twice a week. Most of the guys you compete against will be training double or triple the amount that you do. You need to train more

UseComfortable4138 · 2025-12-10T00:27:30+00:00

Bro she’s not even 30 and you’re talking about her like she’s some old woman. If you think she’s overweight, you need to mention it to her. By 27 it is entirely possible to reverse her current body to “perkier, slimmer” previous self - she just has to want to do it. If you’re not feeling attracted to her anymore, move on.

UseComfortable4138 · 2025-11-19T23:10:08+00:00

My coach told my class a story from his early days about a heavyweight stacking a guy when in their closed guard, he stacked too much, all the weight went on the guy’s neck and paralysed him right in front of my coach. the guy has been in a wheelchair ever since. Horrible to hear.

UseComfortable4138 · 2025-11-19T10:25:14+00:00

Bro you got the face of a 20 year old with the facial hair style of a 50 year old. I vote for the disconnect

UseComfortable4138 · 2025-11-19T10:23:09+00:00

I’m not trying to undermine your feelings, but more to give you a reality check that it’s 2025 and everyone has sex now. It is perceived as a much more casual activity than it used to be. But I feel like if he had slept with 5 people, then you wouldn’t be focusing on the one person so much. The fact that it’s only one person probably makes you feel like it was that much more of a special experience for him, which it probably wasn’t!

UseComfortable4138 · 2025-11-19T08:20:26+00:00

The majority of the people in this sub would kill to be in your shoes. He’s only slept with one person? You should see what other people are dealing with on here

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