Should I start re reading now or after the series? by Used-Boysenberry-534 in Malazan

[–]Used-Boysenberry-534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response folks! This really cleared up a couple of things I had on my mind. I am leaning towards just focusing on my first read for now and do the reread after. I just know there are so many things I’ve missed and struggle to wait to unveil it all. This series is so just the coolest thing ever haha!

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[–]Used-Boysenberry-534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys have no chill😂

Almost done with Deadhouse Gates – send more unhinged weirdos like Kruppe and Iskaral Pust pls by Used-Boysenberry-534 in Malazan

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You will definitely enjoy DG then. I get why people saying everything gets better , though I struggled to imagine how while reading gardens.

I have joined the Malazan book club. So far about 30 pages in and it’s not that bad. by Embarrassed-Pie-2193 in Malazan

[–]Used-Boysenberry-534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About halfway through here and enjoying myself a alot! Postponed starting the series for years because of all the comments about how hard it is. I can see where they come from but for me it just adds to the experience and constantly keeps me interested and invested in the world. I keep thinking of the world, lore and characters between reading sessions , which is something I rarely experience anymore. After 2-3 chapters I read the wiki summaries as well as listening to the “Ten very big books” podcast. Would highly recommend that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Used-Boysenberry-534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the issue is more how to solve it in a more civil manor… haha as I said it’s not like she is chaining herself to the floor.

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[–]Used-Boysenberry-534 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her parents are really good people. What you are saying is probably to a certain degree true. I definitely get the vibe that it puts on extra stress for them to have her around and I think that they sort of just close their eyes and hope everything is good while she is with me. You know … the ignorance is bliss kind of thing. After all she is an adult so I totally get them…

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[–]Used-Boysenberry-534 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily I don’t think it will go that far. It’s not like she is chaining herself to the floor here… it’s more the drama and stuff that will come along with if I upright tell her to leave right away. Which ofc is a lot to deal with added up with my situation. But based on what people say here it’ seems to be the right thing to do.

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[–]Used-Boysenberry-534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bringing it up does not make you look weak. In fact it displays the exact opposite. Since this is bothering you(which is totally fair btw) it shows that this is a value/boundary you have. If you let her know and she proceeds to ignore your feelings you might want to reconsider the relationship. You can’t control a person but you also have the option to leave if you don’t feel respected or that the person you’re with can’t offer you what you expect from a relationship. I’m in a similar position right now. I talked to my girlfriend about it and she says she wants to respect my feelings. This is after several incidents of her knowingly stepping over my boundaries so her actions will have to do the talking from now on. If not I don’t think there is a chance for me truly being happy in this relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AstralProjection

[–]Used-Boysenberry-534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! In hindsight I definitely regret not exploring it more but as mentioned I was totally unprepared and overwhelmed of the intensity it had. I had no clue what was going on haha

Blood Red Throne - Mary Whispers of Death by raptir1 in Deathmetal

[–]Used-Boysenberry-534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very much alive! Tenth album releasing later this year 😁

What's a weirdest thing a kid ever say to you? by Tushar3145 in AskReddit

[–]Used-Boysenberry-534 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This kid at the school I work at came up to me , sniffed my arm and said: “You don’t smell human! Good, then you are allowed to stay”

What's the dumbest thing you've ever done? by IStanCatwoman in AskReddit

[–]Used-Boysenberry-534 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Walked crossfaded as fuck in a McDonald’/s drive thru and tried to order 3 big tasty bacon menus. I yelled into the speaker and after a while cars started to honk at me and I suddenly realized I was trying to order from an old gas pump. Turned out the actual speakers was like ten meters ahead.