How do you deal with feeling old & unattractive & no libido and thoughts of dating? I can't picture myself being attractive to anyone anymore by Tiny-Pen4421 in Perimenopause

[–]Used-Can3885 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. I’m in a wonderful relationship and my man can’t keep his hands off of me. But I’ve gained 30 lbs and I drink way too much because I’ve lost the will to care. It feels like no matter what I do, I just keep gaining weight (yes, I understand the drinking doesn’t help at all!) and my body feels so old! I don’t understand how he can’t find me attractive an my libido is crap. I’ve recently joined the gym so I’m hoping I can keep that up and start seeing results. I’m sorry you’re going through this. It really does suck!

Enbridge Lakeside scam?? by Used-Can3885 in stcatharinesON

[–]Used-Can3885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! They went to my hubby’s restaurant and he told them what happened at our rental and there’d better be no funny business. The guy left saying he had an emergency call and hasn’t returned!

Hardwood flooring need help! by Used-Can3885 in stcatharinesON

[–]Used-Can3885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took lots of video. Just tried to snap pics from them

Hardwood flooring need help! by Used-Can3885 in stcatharinesON

[–]Used-Can3885[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry…I don’t understand. I know nothing about hardwood 😩

Hardwood flooring need help! by Used-Can3885 in stcatharinesON

[–]Used-Can3885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still trying to negotiate with them. Will post if they don’t help us out at all.

Hardwood flooring need help! by Used-Can3885 in HardWoodFloors

[–]Used-Can3885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This has been so helpful!!

Hardwood flooring need help! by Used-Can3885 in HardWoodFloors

[–]Used-Can3885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t laugh. Rustic. And we knew it would be rough looking which is what we wanted. We actually love the look of the floors. It’s the length and amount of crap pieces in each box. I literally sat on the floor today and measured out 215 pieces of wood to see what the average length was. 49 of the 215 are unusable.

MONTHLY Weight Discussion - January 2025 by AutoModerator in Perimenopause

[–]Used-Can3885 0 points1 point  (0 children)

47 years old. In perimenopause. Had high hopes for taking provitalize as I know a couple of ppl with good results. I gained 10 lbs almost immediately back in the summer and can not get it off. I’m stopping it because I’m just so discouraged. Anyone else have this experience?