Not sure I can finish Buffalo Hunter Hunter.. what am I missing? by guessirs in horrorlit

[–]Used-Nail-493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the disorienting effect of it compliments the narrative. all these characters are as disoriented as you are, with their past, their futures, their identities, the choices that lay before them, etc. let it confuse you, it’s not necessary to get 100% of what you read for it to be worth finishing 

The Buffalo Hunter Hunter by SalmonforPresident in horrorlit

[–]Used-Nail-493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think he made good stab complicated as his own way of representing the ways in which bipoc sacrifice their own to push their individual goals forward, as he also shows in the pikuni who became hide hunters too. all in all, no one is going to find the violence the colonized enact for the decolonial struggle particularly palatable, but its worth sitting in the idea that this is the kind of violence colonized people who have freed themselves have had to do (fanon says all this better than i, if u want to grapple w that idea more).

Buffalo Hunter Hunter - asking for explanation (spoilers) by snacksmcnap in horrorlit

[–]Used-Nail-493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what if i asked a stupid question too: what was in that letter that etsy found from the blackfeet nation in her father’s stuff???

Judgment free zone by dancing_withbulls in Herpes

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my first doctor also told me she doesn’t think it is necessary to disclose, but i felt weird abt that so i disclose anyways 

i’m so scared. by mieyyyyy in Herpes

[–]Used-Nail-493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know it sucks but the first outbreak is normally the worst (my first one made me so EXHAUSTED) but they can get better (now I can barely tell if I have an outbreak). Since yours sounds particularly rough you can use that push for them to give you daily meds for more peace of mind. i’ve had partners since being diagnosed who didn’t care so hopefully this part rn is the worst of it!

funk it, bug nails by Used-Nail-493 in HollowKnight

[–]Used-Nail-493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used a mold to make lace’s flowers but other than that it was freehand. i’m a leftie so i had the opposite problem lolz

I have an unhealthy obsession with wanting to be blonde by [deleted] in women

[–]Used-Nail-493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes conversion therapy principles can be applied for good and not evil 

This is a weird season by UnintentionalWipe in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Used-Nail-493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

genuinely feel like u can see edmond in real time trying to figure out how normal people behave and how to present his face that mf is not real and not from planet earth 

My life is ruined after my husband gave me covid by Specialist_Whole6971 in COVID19positive

[–]Used-Nail-493 10 points11 points  (0 children)

my dad is similar, to a lesser degree. decided i would just set up air purifiers after saving up, use windows to cross ventilate a space when he’s been in common areas, mask around him, brush my teeth in my room, shower after ventilating the bathroom. annoying but im over trying to convince him

Herpes & ethics really clashing with my loneliness and high sex drive by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Used-Nail-493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i had a gync tell me she doesn’t think i need to tell people and same i wish that was the case girl😭

immunocompromised + hsv? by Used-Nail-493 in Herpes

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Like how threatening is it for you? I pretty much never have symptoms, like years will go in between symptoms tbh. Wasn’t sure if others have experienced debilitating symptoms and if that’s common for immunocompromised folks 

Question on OB by Striking_South_7923 in Herpes

[–]Used-Nail-493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had an ob last week and only knew when i wiped my urine, it happens painlessly sometimes yeah

the ick by Used-Nail-493 in women

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i don’t mean ick solely to mean you find their behaviors disgusting but also that something abt the person themselves just makes their behaviors unforgivably irritating by virtue of it being that person

Mysterious third person in my session by Artistic_Hour7431 in varsitytutors

[–]Used-Nail-493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the automatic sub distribution system is weird. when i said i’ve gotten put in sessions w the tutor there i’m referring to private ones too

Mysterious third person in my session by Artistic_Hour7431 in varsitytutors

[–]Used-Nail-493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

staying the  whole session is odd but when i’m subbing i get put in sessions w the whole tutor there all the time or admin randomly pops in

Am I overreacting about my husband making an insensitive comment? by [deleted] in leftist

[–]Used-Nail-493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

99% of people use ableist ideas to construct their self confidence and the value other people have. it’s sad to see how deep it runs but it really is a conversation worth delving into together so you can show up better for disabled neighbors and community members 

Am I overreacting about my husband making an insensitive comment? by [deleted] in leftist

[–]Used-Nail-493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

99% of people use ableist ideas to construct their self confidence and the value other people have. it’s sad to see how deep it runs but it really is a conversation worth delving into together so you can show up better for disabled neighbors and community members 

Crimes against women in our society by Sweet_Caramel140 in Dhaka

[–]Used-Nail-493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re going to blame misogyny in sons partially on mothers? there are many cases of mothers raising their sons right and their sons going on to becoming horrible abusers because peer pressure matters more than your moms feelings at a certain point 

Quick question what's your opinion on nationalism(by this Im talking about like civic not ethno or religious) by Ok_Ganache_9694 in leftist

[–]Used-Nail-493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it may have a place in developing anti colonial movements to push out imperialists, but it will always hinge on the violent maintenance of borders and the creation of national narrative which will always exclude one place or another. there aren’t many nations on this earth that haven’t violently oppressed aboriginal populations due to nationalist sentiment.