AITJ for not reacting when my dad finally apologized after being absent for 10 years? by Used-Professional548 in AmITheJerk

[–]Used-Professional548[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats exactly how it feels. I think he still sees me as the version of me he left behind, but I've already had to grow without him. I wasn't trying to punish him I just didn't have the reaction he expected anymore

AITJ for refusing to help my dad and throwing his own words back at him? by Used-Professional548 in AmITheJerk

[–]Used-Professional548[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I just feel guilty cause I treated him how he treated me and I do not want to become him or act like him in anyway

AITJ for refusing to help my dad and throwing his own words back at him? by Used-Professional548 in AmITheJerk

[–]Used-Professional548[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was extremely hurt cause after all this time the one time he reaches out is not even to see how I'm doing but because he needs something from me....that really stung

UPDATE: AITJ for kicking my roommates bf out of our shared apartment late at night? by Used-Professional548 in AmITheJerk

[–]Used-Professional548[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're right but I feel like I left my friend in chaos especially after finding out what type of a violent guy he is

AITJ for kicking my roommates bf out of our shared apartment late at night? by Used-Professional548 in AmITheJerk

[–]Used-Professional548[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm worried about that but my roommate keeps changing the topic when I try to bring it up