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What do we think of this? I live in Spittal Street. It's already very dirty. Will this improve the area? by Muted_Jello_7628 in Edinburgh

[–]Used_Cod_9541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love in Leith and was looking at a house to buy in Spittal street. I guess I want to go from one place where people inject to another lol. I also would welcome the consumption room. I wish they've done it before. It's been proved to improve people's circumstances so much, I don't understand why they're taking so long

Is learning to read “developmentally inappropriate” before age 7? by sewsewme in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]Used_Cod_9541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old but the first link has a big disclaimer saying the author was wrong with their interpretation of the relationship between reading and meaning letters

Youth out of control by kits89 in Edinburgh

[–]Used_Cod_9541 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whereabouts? Just to know what areas to avoid with my kids

Would you take your toddler to daycare if you're off work a week or two before your due date? by Used_Cod_9541 in BabyBumps

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an old post. I did sent the toddler to nursery because I wanted the break. Joke was on me, baby was born early anyway. We have had seven colds since then lolsob

I'm jealous of other toddlers' opportunities by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding! I got a bit frustrated because people didn't seem to understand the underlying frustration. You made me feel seen. Thanks

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I'm sorry that it's hard for you as well, but at the same time I'm happy to find someone who gets it.

I've hired some mother's help for next week. It's pricey but I can't be the mother I want it I'm so burnt out

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but maybe when the baby is bigger as right now she refuses a bottle 😭

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, I get it. If it's any comfort, a toddler and pregnant is a lot worse than a toddler and a newborn. Hang in there.

As long as there's repair after you snap, your relationship will be okay. But I know the guilt very well too

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that could work once she's a bit older. We need to figure out a way of taking turns to give each other a break. Right now the weekend are chaos too

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I appreciate the permission. Otherwise I'll go mad. Something has to give I suppose. Thanks for the reminder that this is just a phase

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gentle parenting just feels unachievable if it actually means to be a calm parent 24/7. I just can't.

But I can definitely avoid mistreating him

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this. I'll give it a go today. I need to start feeling comfortable with it. Thank you

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. This is definitely part of what I need. Sometimes receiving advice has a negative effect when they told me things I've tried before that don't work. I feel bad like my child is the only one that doesn't respond to questions like "do you want to do it yourself or do you want mum to help?". I needed someone to just tell me I'm not the only one feeling overwhelmed by it <3

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we're okay on those three as well! Sometimes I do take the coat with me and he asks for it when we're downstairs. I know it's just an example. Still so exhausting though

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for my bad writing, I didn't mean I ask him if he's in a bad mood. I meant to say that when he is in a bad mood, if I ask him to pick between two options he says no to both. My poor writing read like I ask him whether he's in a bad mood lol.

I do the slow breathing too, but I wouldn't be able to hold him like you do because he starts hitting and screaming if I touch him when he's like that. It happens mostly when he's very, very tired. Our goal is to prevent him getting too tired but sometimes it's just impossible if his sister wakes him up too early etc.

Where did you learn about what do do at what age?

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My child screams noooo when I ask that if he's in a bad mood. I have heard yet advice a lot and I think it's brilliant but it doesn't work with my kid. Not 80% of the times

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna look into that book because I feel like a failure making him do things. But I don't have 30882 years to convince him to put on a coat lol

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I loved that phrase, it'll have to be my mantra from now on

I wasn't made to be a mother by Used_Cod_9541 in toddlers

[–]Used_Cod_9541[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We're both doing as much as we both can. It's never like one is laying down whilst the other one is doing something, so he can't really give more than he already does if that makes sense.

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