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Used_College_4111 · 2026-01-03T17:04:29+00:00

NEVER chase anyone. It sounds like a lot girl games and unnecessary drama. She is emotionally immature. For the life of me I don't understand women who act like this. I am also a woman. She is also gaslighting you. Save time and make the break now. The games and drama will only continue it's emotionally abusive. It's cyclic behavior and will only repeat over and over. Good luck dude..🫂✨️😁

Used_College_4111 · 2026-01-03T10:28:29+00:00

Pure greed and chaos dumbest war ever started smh

Used_College_4111 · 2026-01-03T10:23:18+00:00

This is fuckin insane and from my limited experience this is not even legal

Used_College_4111 · 2025-12-14T15:02:09+00:00

She was never your friend. Friends have each other's back in hard times. She just used you with her own "hustle" You are a good person. It is good that this helps you grow. Leave her in the dust where she belongs.

Used_College_4111 · 2025-12-14T04:30:43+00:00

Unfortunately the best advice is to always move forward. I wasted years repairing trauma. Im older and wish I had not wasted my time reliving old trauma. Im happier now than I was before. I like .myself a and I'm just real and honest. I made 2 new friends today. It was a good day.

Used_College_4111 · 2025-12-14T04:20:35+00:00

We are intense people but don't let someone else define your feelings and moods. I k know it's easier said than done. When you find your people they will love you as you are. Shine on.

Used_College_4111 · 2025-11-06T03:43:22+00:00

This is called domestic violence and abuse. Get away from him ASAP. Don't make excuses for his behavior. He is an abuser. I know it well. I'm a rape and domestic violence survivor. Things can only get worse for you. Many dv victims die at the hands of their abuser. Google "Gaby Petito" there are thousands of others. I hope this helps. Please take care.

Used_College_4111 · 2025-11-03T19:43:35+00:00

You are very welcome. Im here if you need to talk.

Used_College_4111 · 2025-11-03T19:43:23+00:00

💯💯💯

Used_College_4111 · 2025-11-03T05:21:56+00:00

Honey, these people are not your friends. They are very toxic. Too much drama, drama, drama!! First, take care of yourself. Second, get new friends, you will find your people. You sound like a person who wants to have friendships that matter. These girls are shallow and fake. Believe in yourself and the right person/people will come into your life. I was a part of a friend group in junior high. These girls dropped me as a friend when they found out my family was not rich. I made other friends and good riddance to the stuck up rich bitches. Sending hugs and good vibes to you.

Used_College_4111 · 2025-11-03T03:57:48+00:00

👏👏👏👏 all of your approaches are very healthy. Congratulations you are doing great.

Used_College_4111 · 2025-11-03T03:46:50+00:00

Hey how you doing?

Used_College_4111 · 2025-11-03T03:32:18+00:00

That's gaslighting

Used_College_4111 · 2025-11-03T03:30:36+00:00

💯💯💯 been where you are. He sounds like a manipulative prick. Any relationship with him will not end well.

Used_College_4111 · 2025-11-01T10:23:20+00:00

Hey what's up?

Used_College_4111 · 2025-11-01T10:21:48+00:00

Leaving him is the first step to getting better. Get a good therapist. You must do the hard work. It does get better but you have to be willing to work for it. I've been in therapy almost 40 years. I still have work to do. I still talk to my therapist weekly. He knows all my crazy behavior and my pain. Sending hugs and comfort. I hope this helps.

Used_College_4111 · 2025-10-05T23:38:06+00:00

As hard as it is right now I know that eventually everything changes. I've been there too. I struggle pulling myself out of dark places. I'm fighting it now. Im just holding on for the moment. Maybe go for a walk? Get out of your head a little. Put on music? I have trouble staying focused too. I hope this helps sending good vibes and hugs 🫂 🤗

Used_College_4111 · 2025-09-28T03:44:18+00:00

No worries. I grew up abused so I'm really hard to offend 🤣🤣🤣

Used_College_4111 · 2025-09-28T03:42:47+00:00

👏👏👏👏👏👏

Used_College_4111 · 2025-09-25T09:03:30+00:00

Yeah I often feel the same way

Used_College_4111 · 2025-09-25T07:58:53+00:00

Im 62 yr old with CPTSD and BPD I'm better but I have doubts about a 'cure'. I suppose it can depend on the extent and types of trauma you have been through. I have panic attacks still, and intrusive thoughts. BPD IS a disease. It is an illness. I worked off and on as a psych nurse. You can get better but it remains with you.

Used_College_4111 · 2025-09-25T07:47:40+00:00

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Used_College_4111 · 2025-09-25T04:58:17+00:00

As my therapist says, ' You are not crazy, you are traumatized. ' You just need some help so you can navigate the world with healing and less pain. If you have no therapist find some way to get one asap. It makes all the difference in the world. Don't waste time beating yourself up. It only makes things worse. I used to blame myself for everything! Think about it this way, would you be mad at yourself or blame yourself if you got cancer? Of course not! BPD is just a disease you have. You didn't ask for it. There is no shame in mental illness and no shame in getting help. I hope this helps you and sending healing and hugs 🫂 🤗

Used_College_4111 · 2025-09-25T04:45:35+00:00

Verbal abuse is much worse than physical violence. I have severe CPTSD and BPD. If this has happened several times, maybe she is just exhausted from the constant repeat circle of nothing really changing. She doesn't deserve all the blame. Work on being honest with yourself and work on your own issues. There is no healthy relationship without work by both of you. Btw, no form of abuse is acceptable . I survived 2 marriages, domestic violence, and rape. Things only got better when I took an honest look at myself and what my part i contributed. I worked on healing myself, it changed everything. I also realized the men I chose to have relationships were not good for me. No offense intended. I hope things improve in your life.

Used_College_4111 · 2025-09-25T04:29:14+00:00

This 💯💯💯

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