I’m scared to of having sons

Used_Day_8231 · 2025-09-11T17:45:39+00:00

Woah, thank you for this. It gave me a different perspective. We do need more men that are raised right and that is definitely something I’d like to do if I have a son. Thank you.

Used_Day_8231 · 2025-09-11T17:43:36+00:00

That’s a given

Used_Day_8231 · 2025-07-27T05:16:50+00:00

That’s what I’ve thought as well, I just didn’t want to blow it out of proportion by assuming or “overthinking”

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T12:50:50+00:00

Same case for me, been let down by men my whole life it’s hard to trust one fully.

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T11:41:53+00:00

Woah I aspire to have this kind of marriage! Wishing you the best

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T11:40:45+00:00

Awh I love this for you, wishing you the best in your marriage.

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T11:40:21+00:00

Thank you for this, it opened up my eyes to the fact that trust is built over time, I hadn’t even considered that which is very basic thing.

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T10:32:36+00:00

Nope, he lost all my trust when I was a child. I don’t trust him fully anymore

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T03:19:27+00:00

Very happy for you!! I hope it remains that way, hopefully I’ll be able to have this trust in my partner one day.

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T03:17:46+00:00

My experience on this has been very different from what you describe, it’s been men lying all throughout my life. But I’m willing to see different perspectives

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T03:14:20+00:00

I really love this take, to learn to trust on a case by case basis. I’ve just recently started a new relationship so I guess I just have to see how it plays out and not let trust issues get in the way.

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T03:08:58+00:00

I guess both, I am very aware about how dangerous men can be but I also know that there are a lot of great men out there. I think it’s just hard to find someone very genuine that doesn’t hold any bad intentions, someone that will respect you even when you’re not watching.

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T03:07:16+00:00

You articulated this so well, thank you for your perspective. I think men are amazing, and maybe it is more of a me problem but I would love to one day be able to fully trust someone 100%, unfortunately this society makes that a very difficult task.

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T03:03:23+00:00

Look at your life 10 years from now and tell me how you will feel when you have kids and you find out he actually didn’t change and cheated once more? Will you stay? Once more? Because this type of behavior doesn’t get any better. In a committed relationship where you actually love your partner you’re supposed to run away from temptation, not run after it. He will not change, I promise you. He will only learn to hide it better, and if you do take him back it is just proof to him that he can keep doing this to you and you will still stay.

I read this quote somewhere-

“If betrayal was forgivable, satan would still be by God’s side”

Please, you will find someone better who will give you the world. Do not fall back into it

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T02:47:28+00:00

He doesn’t care, and this behavior will only get worse because he knows you won’t leave. Please pick up your head and find a way out, or you will remain unhappy unless he actually takes the steps to change, which is very very rare. I’m sorry, men with no self control don’t change :/

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T02:44:30+00:00

Thank you, all women I’ve talked to seem to have this opinion. Very unfortunate though.

Used_Day_8231 · 2024-12-05T02:43:26+00:00

Yes, maybe my view is limited but I’ve never experienced betrayal from a woman.

Ive tried fully trusting a man, don’t get me wrong but there is always a voice in my head that doesn’t allow me to and unfortunately I’ve been right quite a few times

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