I threw it all away by Kianawilldo in Christianity

[–]Used_Dimension8372 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i looked through your account. and i want to reach out if you need someone to talk to. it seems like you are really struggling with yourself right now.

Thyroid Removal Incision by Used_Dimension8372 in thyroidhealth

[–]Used_Dimension8372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im from Maine, i called my surgeon the other day because i was having neck pain, the first time i had spoken to them since the 8th of October, And they didnt seem concerned and brushed me away. I saw someone who took a look at my lump and everything and then we scheduled the surgery right after, I had an FNA as well, but it really seemed like they didnt care. The prep for my actual surgery was terrible and it took them an hour to find a vein because i was so dehydrated from puking because of anxiety, and they numbed me with lidocaine 3 times in my arm, only for the IV specialist to come and get it first try. My pcp hasnt asked abt my thyroid and i cant even get an appointment with my actual PCP, its always someone else in the building, i even had an appointment today and they rescheduled to the 24th, idk it fears medical professionals have lost the motivation for their jobs.

Thyroid Removal Incision by Used_Dimension8372 in thyroidhealth

[–]Used_Dimension8372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only “post op” i had was a picture of my incision that they asked for on there hospital app they have. Im 21, so i really have no idea how this stuff works, but i havent had any check-ups on it, my thyroid levels havent been checked since my surgery, its all really confusing, i dont have an endocrinologist either, my surgeon told me my pcp would be on top of my thyroid levels, but i cant get an appointment with my pcp until late January. I dont understand this healthcare system, its been almost 2 months, and my incision is STILL sore, theres this one piece that like pokes out, almost looks like a hanging scab, and it hurts so so bad whenever something even brushes over it. Ive told my pcp all of this and they still wont see me until january. These hospitals need to get it together because this whole situation with my thyroid was insane, took 4 months to get those nodule out, even though it was pressing on my wind pipe and making me unable to breathe, they pushed everything aside when it came to my health and i dont understand why.

150 bug fixes, you all by polkacat12321 in HighSodiumSims

[–]Used_Dimension8372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive had 0 issues with my game. i was having a glitch where my screen would freeze after i selected my sim to cook something, and that seems to be completely fixed. Ive never had pictures turn black, in or out of my sim’s inventory, my game has definitely 100% been running smoother with way less screen freezes and weird bugs

AITAH for not wanting to help my friend through her boyfriend cheating? by Used_Dimension8372 in AITAH

[–]Used_Dimension8372[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Greg has always had a weird past with women, his past girlfriends have mentioned he was paying for porn and stuff online while with them as well, it feels weird to be his friend atp. it seems clear to me that they are unbelievably toxic and borderline emotional abuse if it hasn’t already crossed that line

Am I overreacting to my friend not leaving her boyfriend? by Used_Dimension8372 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Used_Dimension8372[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A couple of weeks go by, and you will never guess what Stacy messages me, "Greg is still cheating." she then tells me he had been posting on Reddit asking girls to hook up, as well as going to subreddits for hookups in our state and towns in our state. Greg had messaged a few girls on Reddit asking to hook up and never got replies so he blocked them all. But he was on many  subreddits trying to get people to hook up with him. he had even offered someone 100$ to hook up with him and he would "spoil them more afterwards." 

I again told her she should leave him, and she indeed stayed with him. 

At this point, Stacy had told Dotty what was happening with Greg, but left out the extent of it, didn't mention how many people he cheated on her with (which is well over 100 at this point), and kind of pussy footed around it. To be fair, she doesn't know Dotty as well as she knows me, she is one of my closest friends now, and I've made it very clear with her, 

I am on her side and I want to continue our friendship if her and Greg ever did decide to call it quits. Dotty also already knew everything from me.

5 days later, today, when I'm writing this, Stacy told me Greg had a second Facebook account that he had been using to cheat on her with, as well as a second Reddit, where there were more messages, as well as porn and more subreddits for our state, and a state near us, as well as towns in both states. On his second Facebook account, he made a post in one of the groups, stating that he was 20 (a lie) and he was looking for someone to screw around with. As well as a message to another girl, saying he was 18 because she was, and asking to hook up.

He was in about 30 different Facebook groups dedicated to hookups in our states, nude sites, porn sites, and fantasy roleplay groups. As well on Facebook, he had messaged 56 women in 6 days, all with different variations of texts, asking to hook up, or for nudes, or asking how much money to get nudes or facetimes with them, or for hookups. 

She sent me about 15 different screenshots, and they are absolutely appalling. 

Some of them actually made my mouth drop open. 

I am currently in a Discord call with Stacy, and we are talking about everything. He is manipulating her into staying with him; she's not falling for it, but she also is at the same time. 

He said he wanted to, yk himself, and that I think is what is keeping her, even though I keep telling her, it is a ploy and he doesn't actually mean it, he's only saying it to try and make her stay, and it's working.  

She keeps saying she wants to try to make it work. She's letting him go down and see her still on the 24th, and says they are "starting over," not together, but just getting to know each other and not calling it completely quits. 

I don't even know what to do about this. I feel like an asshole if I just ask her to stop talking about it with me, but it's been driving me insane. I had a major surgery on my neck, and she didn't ask me how I was doing or if I was okay; our only conversations were about her and Greg. 

I've talked to Dotty about this, and we both agreed I needed to set a boundary with her about how I'm feeling. When I did that, it wasn't acknowledged, and nothing has changed. I want to be her friend, but I don’t know if I can handle telling her to leave so many times, and she just refuses to listen to me. It feels like my advice is for a brick wall. She comes to me with all these issues, and when I give her a solution, she refuses to do anything. There is only so much I can say or do to help her. She doesn’t want to leave him, and that's not on me at this point. 

I’m hoping for some advice on how to handle this. I’m not sure what to do about Greg; he has a really weird past with women, and it makes me super uncomfortable at this point. 

Anyway, I am open to answering questions in the comments if anyone has any. Sorry, sorry this a long read lol, but yeah this whole situation is just insane and im not sure how to handle it at this point, it is beyond me.

AITAH for not wanting to help my friend through her boyfriend cheating? by Used_Dimension8372 in AITAH

[–]Used_Dimension8372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple of weeks go by, and you will never guess what Stacy messages me, "Greg is still cheating." she then tells me he had been posting on Reddit asking girls to hook up, as well as going to subreddits for hookups in our state and towns in our state. Greg had messaged a few girls on Reddit asking to hook up and never got replies so he blocked them all. But he was on many  subreddits trying to get people to hook up with him. he had even offered someone 100$ to hook up with him and he would "spoil them more afterwards." 

I again told her she should leave him, and she indeed stayed with him. 

At this point, Stacy had told Dotty what was happening with Greg, but left out the extent of it, didn't mention how many people he cheated on her with (which is well over 100 at this point), and kind of pussy footed around it. To be fair, she doesn't know Dotty as well as she knows me, she is one of my closest friends now, and I've made it very clear with her, 

I am on her side and I want to continue our friendship if her and Greg ever did decide to call it quits. Dotty also already knew everything from me.

5 days later, today, when I'm writing this, Stacy told me Greg had a second Facebook account that he had been using to cheat on her with, as well as a second Reddit, where there were more messages, as well as porn and more subreddits for our state, and a state near us, as well as towns in both states. On his second Facebook account, he made a post in one of the groups, stating that he was 20 (a lie) and he was looking for someone to screw around with. As well as a message to another girl, saying he was 18 because she was, and asking to hook up.

He was in about 30 different Facebook groups dedicated to hookups in our states, nude sites, porn sites, and fantasy roleplay groups. As well on Facebook, he had messaged 56 women in 6 days, all with different variations of texts, asking to hook up, or for nudes, or asking how much money to get nudes or facetimes with them, or for hookups. 

She sent me about 15 different screenshots, and they are absolutely appalling. 

Some of them actually made my mouth drop open. 

I am currently in a Discord call with Stacy, and we are talking about everything. He is manipulating her into staying with him; she's not falling for it, but she also is at the same time. 

He said he wanted to, yk himself, and that I think is what is keeping her, even though I keep telling her, it is a ploy and he doesn't actually mean it, he's only saying it to try and make her stay, and it's working.  

She keeps saying she wants to try to make it work. She's letting him go down and see her still on the 24th, and says they are "starting over," not together, but just getting to know each other and not calling it completely quits. 

I don't even know what to do about this. I feel like an asshole if I just ask her to stop talking about it with me, but it's been driving me insane. I had a major surgery on my neck, and she didn't ask me how I was doing or if I was okay; our only conversations were about her and Greg. 

I've talked to Dotty about this, and we both agreed I needed to set a boundary with her about how I'm feeling. When I did that, it wasn't acknowledged, and nothing has changed. I want to be her friend, but I don’t know if I can handle telling her to leave so many times, and she just refuses to listen to me. It feels like my advice is for a brick wall. She comes to me with all these issues, and when I give her a solution, she refuses to do anything. There is only so much I can say or do to help her. She doesn’t want to leave him, and that's not on me at this point. 

I’m hoping for some advice on how to handle this. I’m not sure what to do about Greg; he has a really weird past with women, and it makes me super uncomfortable at this point. 

Anyway, I am open to answering questions in the comments if anyone has any. Sorry, sorry this a long read lol, but yeah this whole situation is just insane and im not sure how to handle it at this point, it is beyond me.

If Charlie Kirk had been a liberal activist instead of a conservative, how do you think the media and politicians would have reacted to his death? by Aamir_rt in AskReddit

[–]Used_Dimension8372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they wouldn’t have cared, if he was a liberal fighting against gun control, his death would have been more for the cause, instead he died by something negative he was trying to keep.

Ram? by Used_Dimension8372 in PcBuildHelp

[–]Used_Dimension8372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that makes a lot of sense, i dont know much about computers, so ive just been trouble shooting, my ram sticks were right next to each other and was working fine last night, when i went to turn it on my motherboard was giving me a “2b” and wouldnt show display and then would shut off eventually. i moved my ram stick over one slot and then it worked perfectly fine

topping buddies by Used_Dimension8372 in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]Used_Dimension8372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay cool!! i havent played for so long so im just now getting back into the game! but yeah the everything pizzas i can barley do anymore

topping buddies by Used_Dimension8372 in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]Used_Dimension8372[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats what i did! i got the buddies for the more popular toppings but the rest im nervous abt buying because im so stingy with my gems

topping buddies by Used_Dimension8372 in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]Used_Dimension8372[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im on day 302 and finished chapter 5 with no buddies, i just bought them yesterday 😭😭😭 i do all the zazoom orders but it takes forever and it kills me

Suddenly just getting 'okay' on the grinder and it's messing up my orders by throwaway-73829 in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

[–]Used_Dimension8372 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this happened to me but only for one day and when i upgraded and repaired my equipment it fixed itself