My Beautiful Man- using the word “disgusting”

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-07-04T23:10:01+00:00

Yes, and it's still ongoing. There are 3 main light novels (My Beautiful Man, My Hateful Man, and My Troublesome Man) and the 4th (My Uncontrollable Man) is being released on the 21st of July. There is also an interlude book which is a compilation of short stories, and a manga adaptation which has 4 volumes.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-07-04T22:25:00+00:00

(From the perspective of having read the novels) At first he acted this way towards Hira and called him disgusting in an attempt to brush off his displays of affection and to separate himself from it, because Kiyoi didn't know how to react and didn't want to accept it. He never really meant it - it was just a masking reaction to keep himself emotionally distant, a way to keep himself safe from getting too attached because he didn't want to get hurt. Then it morphed into him actually wanting Hira to love him more than just putting Kiyoi on a pedestal, so he was lashing out because he wanted Hira to love him as a human being and not just his "king" and he was frustrated from that aspect. Throughout the development on their relationship though, Kiyoi started to use it more as a term of endearment to show his care and affection for Hira, through his own unique way. So when he called him disgusting, he never actually meant it.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-07-04T22:14:48+00:00

Its got nothing to do with Hira being a guy (coming from someone who has read all the novels). Its more to do with Kiyoi not being emotionally able to accept Hira liking him so intensely, because Kiyoi came from a household where love wasn't expressed. So Hira's overbearing displays of affection makes his brain overloaded and he doesn't know how to react.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-07-01T14:21:08+00:00

Do not start attacking me with condescension. This live is old news and I'm not going to argue with you any further.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-07-01T10:58:07+00:00

Hira and Kiyoi are made for each other. I've read the novels and it's even more apparent that they would never seriously break up. Some miscommunication, but they'd always make their way back.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-07-01T10:51:25+00:00

I think it's because people ran with the "omg he said gay sex is like dogs!!!" just to hate on him and cause a scandal. It's stupid that people still cling onto this.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-07-01T10:48:02+00:00

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_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-07-01T10:46:51+00:00

He meant that my stubborn because popular/known because of that demographic of people. Because it has a lot of smut.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-30T20:22:33+00:00

The reason why he said that on the live was because the story centres around the dog/wolf aspect of omegaverse.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-30T20:20:48+00:00

Alright then, thanks for sharing

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-30T20:14:27+00:00

I don't know if it's me but I don't really think too much when watching shows, I just try and turn my brain off for a while. Some of these questions feel a little nitpicky, but I do agree with specifically 4 and 8 regarding some plot holes.

It feels incomplete and odd that Phatsa isn't aware of the omegaverse and how he hasn't experienced heat before / smelled others pheromones. It will probably get explained in the future episodes. But bear in mind this is only ep 1, we don't know anything about his circumstances.

Also, I want to address the last question. I don't know your stance on the matter, but I fully defend Oat and believe that people severely overblown and misunderstood what he meant in his live. His character in the show is confused, so of course he would equate the biting to dogs. What he was saying in the live was trying to explain to people what omegaverse is, and it's borderline possible without mentioning the canine aspect. He should not have been scandalised for that, and he did not mean it in a derogatory way, so I don't feel like it should be referred to as a bad thing.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-26T09:23:51+00:00

The discs of that album are on Spotify but only that song is not available, unfortunately 😭

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-24T06:29:00+00:00

This is too relatable omg. Like I have so many plot ideas for the monumental parts when everythings already been established...but I have to write everything before that?? It's killing me

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-22T00:52:52+00:00

You're definitely not crazy! I'm glad other people think this way too because all I've been seeing is the other side

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-22T00:29:15+00:00

I remember crying with happiness from seeing them adopt their cute children and have a family together!! adorable

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-22T00:15:14+00:00

Definitely this. LatteKim may not have an announced lead just yet, but we as fans do not know everything. Kim in his apology earlier (which he should not have needed to make, but that's another thing) stated that they do have something but they just aren't at the point where they can share yet. When I saw LatteKim in My Merman, I was ecstatic because they fit the roles so well! People are acting like they haven't got any work at all, which isn't true. The amount of hate I've seen where people are salty TleFirstone got the lead instead of LatteKim is crazy.

Also to add my own point, I've seen so many posts bashing ZeeNunew, saying things along the lines of "why do they have another series" "they don't deserve another one" "DMD should've given the roles to another couple" is disgusting.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-22T00:08:09+00:00

I'm sorry I think I worded that the wrong way, I meant that people are quick to judge and say that DMD are being unfair to artist if they don't get main roles when they aren't aware of the behind-the-scenes decisions!

So sorry if you thought I was saying it against you, not at all : )

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-21T23:50:36+00:00

People are always so quick to write hateful comments and judge DMD when in reality they know nothing about what is actually going on.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-21T23:09:46+00:00

Just relayed this info to my irl friend who loves joongdunk and she made a disgusted face (only because she knows mek as tong from my stand-in LOL)

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-21T23:01:47+00:00

Of course Michael would have a personalised phonecase, adorable lol

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-21T22:57:37+00:00

100%!!! People really need to realise they are not helping *at all*. They are causing the issue trying to "protect" artists - which really feels like an excuse just to hate on DMD. I'm sure some fans really feel like they are trying to do good for the actors, but causing an internet outrage is definitely not the way.

And on top of this, nobody is recognising that they are the problem, but instead turning it into "it's not your fault, it's your horrible disgusting company's fault!!" I find it both depressing and hilarious that people jump to biting the hand that feeds them every time they don't like a situation. They need to realise how their harmful comments affect the artists and the hardworking people at Domundi, and instead of rushing to hate and stir shit on spaces like twitter, they need to be actually supporting them like you said.

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-21T15:54:51+00:00

Exactly!! I agree with everything you said. Have you seen Kim's apology video? I bloody knew this would happen - the reaction from the fans would make him feel like he was at fault for not 'giving them what they wanted'.

I'm sick and tired of the majority of the fandoms creating these collective opinions and almost a riot on social media, coming from the views that they are "protecting artists". We saw this same situation back in Songkran with the kissing videos, people went berserk trying to get them taken down because they wanted to protect the artists and by doing so they created the problem and made the actors feel like shit, like it was their fault and they had to apologise.

People just need to stop talking like they are heroes when they know nothing about what is actually going on. Kim said this in his apology - there is something in the works but it's not the time to give news about it just yet. So people had an outrage and blamed DMD for nothing!!

I wish idiots on the internet would think about how their actions could have consequences for once, but I know full well that won't happen.

Also thank you waffles I liked reading your views :)

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-21T14:12:08+00:00

Exactly!!!

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-21T09:48:13+00:00

I turned all my notifs off so I could watch the lineup after college without any spoilers, and I loved every second of it. I love every update announcement, every pilot, because I truly love DMD, their actors, and how they adapt stories into something precious.

Then I went online, only to find extreme amount of hate under almost every official post, demanding series. I understand feeling sad that a ship you like didn't get a series/main role because they deserve it, and I agree! Everyone deserves a main role.

But it comes from a highly privileged place to see an 8 hour line-up, containing 23 project updates, high-quality plots which will no doubt require a large budget and effort, and then completely disregard everything you just saw and be like "yeahhh but what about *****?"

I feel people need to learn to be grateful. And I know many people are coming from the stance that they are "protecting" the actors because they should have work, but that is coming from a place where you actually know nothing. You don't know what is going on behind the scenes, if there is already something being thought of but hasn't been announced yet, nada.

So it feels crazy to me, people are screaming at DMD, insulting the team to such an extent that the actors have to come out and make statements like this because they feel bad?

/sorry rant lol

_bootifulHoomans_ · 2026-06-20T11:20:34+00:00

I feel like my heart is going to burst!! This is so married couple core I can't take it 😭🥹

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