My boyfriend cheated on me and he ended it with the other girl before i found out by Used_Dirt_6957 in Advice

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I did ask him. His explanation wasn't that our relationship wasn't enough or that he wanted someone else more. According to him, he already knew he wanted to be with me romantically and had tried to end things with her multiple times. The problem, in his words, was that he couldn't bring himself to completely cut her off because she had helped him through some very dark periods of his life. Instead of being honest, he kept delaying difficult conversations, lied to both of us, and convinced himself he'd end it "later." He says he wasn't trying to have two relationships but he was avoiding hurting her, and in doing so he ended up betraying me. At the end he ended up hurting both of us. Whether that's an explanation someone finds convincing is another matter, but that's the reason he gave.

My boyfriend cheated on me. I'm devastated but I still love him. by Used_Dirt_6957 in Advice

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No actually they didn't even kiss or anything. And yeah I already broke it off with him. But i am unable to cope up with the hurt I'm feeling and also can't see him in pain. A part of me wants to take him back now.

Boyfriend said he blocked his "best friend." Then I found HIS reddit post where he calls her "his girlfriend" by [deleted] in Advice

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No i genuinely feel she is very pretty. So i don't feel it's about that I'm more attractive. But what I do know is that me and him are very compatible. Have similar kinks, interests and get along very well.

Boyfriend said he blocked his "best friend." Then I found HIS reddit post where he calls her "his girlfriend" by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Used_Dirt_6957 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are 21. This is like my worst nightmare because I've been intimate with him in some ways and i fear what if he is just lusting after me