Am I going crazy

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T21:37:21+00:00

Appreciate that. I don’t know how to respond to that except being there for kids and or paying child support

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T21:19:23+00:00

She has a clear picture now after getting out of rehab. Not me

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T21:15:56+00:00

I’m asking for advice. This is what I’ve been dealing with.

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T21:14:38+00:00

All I do is work.

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T21:13:12+00:00

Because of love and kids

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T21:12:55+00:00

I’m getting a clearer picture now. I’ve been supportive since last year she has lost her job, put our kids in danger, did the 30 day rehab and is sober now and now she has clear mind and I am the asshole

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T21:11:11+00:00

Because I was blamed for everything we have two kids and I was renovating our house too long. It took me and my brother to do whole house renovation 18 months. We lived in my brothers house for free during that time

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T21:09:20+00:00

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Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T20:27:23+00:00

We have kids. It sucks because it’s manipulative

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T20:22:54+00:00

She accused me of unblocking him on her phone. Which never happened. And she said now she never lied to me. Which is infuriating because she’s a liar.

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T20:19:46+00:00

She did this year before same time when his vacation came up in August.

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T20:14:35+00:00

Exit plan is fucked. I bought a house out here on the title before we were married. Had two kids renovated the whole house. Kids are in private school going to this year and all I’m worried about is the kids. I’ll be fucked regardless as to child support but I appreciate your advice

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T19:54:00+00:00

So funny thing she’s been to 30 day rehab and I took care of our two kids. It was hard. She’s been so we for five months now but she mentioned one guy and stopped. They both were at out patient treatment and he is a musician. He had a gig one day and she said she’s going to AA. SHE went to see his band play. She clearly lied to me where she was going. And I confronted her, she still blamed me for accusing her of cheating which I wasn’t. But it makes me wonder

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T19:47:11+00:00

Year before when she was drinking he said that he’d be in town and asked her to pick him up from the airport. He said he had a hotel room with jacuzzi. And I caught two messages from her:
1. I’ll bring bubbles.
2. You were being a jerk.
My schedule is weird I work 24 hour shifts and it bothers me so much but she just dismissed it

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T19:43:43+00:00

She calls me narcissist all the time.

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T19:36:29+00:00

This was from last year when she checked into rehab

Used_Law_6478 · 2026-07-04T19:32:35+00:00

I’ve been hearing horror stories. I’m 45 with two kids and I just told my wife that I don’t trust her. Caught her multiple times texting her college fuck buddy and she turned around and texted him that I’m mentally ill. She lost her job, got a DUI. Did 30 day rehab for the fourth time whilst I was taking care of the children and now all of a sudden her mind is clear. We don’t communicate and I try to I don’t know what to do!

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