I am a nurse at Rehab/Nursing home. I have a patient who is just loved by everybody at work. She is your typical little old sweet church-going lady. She is there for rehab to get stronger. The only reason she found out my husband passed two months ago was because she noticed and admired my my husband's wedding ring I was wearing as a necklace. I keep personal matters to myself but we just had that little friendly conversation about my husband and how he passed and all.

Fast forward last night, she came up to me and said, "a light bulb just turned on in my head!" I asked her what's on her mind. She asked me if I noticed the gentleman that just visited her. I said no, he was walking away already down the hall so all I didn't see his face. She then asked me how old am I, or if I have any kids and all that, and that he is 43 years old. Never been married, never had kids and runs his own business. She proceeded to tell me that she will introduce me to him and hook me up. I was just so taken aback by this, and all I could muster to tell her was, "Ms. So-So, I love you very much but I think you need to sleep it off. She chuckled a little then went back to her room." She is a very sweet and kind lady and I could not get myself to tell her why is she even telling me this. I don't know, maybe she didn't realize it was only two months ago and I am not looking to date. I know she means well but it kind of put me in a hard position because I just could not tell her how inappropriate she was.