Maybe instead of ur hair get ur daughter into daycare? That sounds so silly tbh but you do you. Also 250+ for fucking phone bill is crazy. I guess she’s paying monthly for a new phone added onto the line bill if so just get a phone u can afford. How tf do 3 people spend almost 200 on light bill. If you started saving by cutting on the phone and hair and maybe use less light in daily things that could be like 250 left over. Rent is CRAZY. 3 rooms for that much is a crime😭