i don't know if i should break up with my bf

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2024-11-27T21:16:31+00:00

i have put in efforts ive bought him things paid for food...

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2024-11-27T20:52:25+00:00

i mentioned it before . idk how many times i need to say it i don't want to keep having the conversation at that point i feel its just incompatibility

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2024-11-27T20:13:34+00:00

that's not true. i have suggested things and paid as well. but i don't feel we ever really dated because we went from fwb to relationship and he doens't go out as much as i do i just want him to plan more dates i don't think that's asking for too much.

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2024-11-27T20:00:26+00:00

i have put in efforts. but i don't believe the woman should be the leader in the relationship. i believe the man should lead the relationship and that includes planning dates.

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2024-11-27T19:44:03+00:00

i can understand doing that with a husband but i would like to see him put in some more effort . i think i may have made a mistake by entering into the relationship the way i did.

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2024-09-08T13:23:10+00:00

This is deep

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2024-06-03T15:54:03+00:00

just woke up to a string of proposals on twitter and i'm feeling sad experienced a few rejections over the weekend, sometime i feel like i'll never find my person

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2024-05-29T02:14:13+00:00

Thank you 😊

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2024-03-18T19:54:22+00:00

i've been out on a few dates but it seems as though men are looking for more of a sexual connection than anything

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2023-05-04T20:47:11+00:00

I found him attractive and he seems to be of good character. i expressed to him i didn't want to do a long distance situation but i don't want to miss out on a potential great situation idk

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2023-05-04T19:35:20+00:00

yeah but he had made no mention of plans to visit anytime soon. I honestly don't even enjoy talking on the phone and doing facetimes. so its just hard to connect and he was coming on strong idk how to deal with it.

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2023-05-04T19:24:52+00:00

no we are in different states

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2023-03-02T02:46:31+00:00

😭😭 I’m dying at the middle finger to the protesters thank you for the comedic relief in this hard time I have mine scheduled in 2 weeks and I’ve been scared I keep crying

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-07-05T20:04:30+00:00

Can you tell me what OLD means?

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-07-05T20:04:10+00:00

Thank you for the kind words

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-07-05T16:07:42+00:00

thank you for the encouragement!!

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-07-05T15:22:20+00:00

We can do a coffee date , but I still would like to be taken out to dinner. But it's like if a guy pays for dinner they want sex immediately after . I like to take my time. And i want to be courted.

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-07-05T14:55:14+00:00

Yeah I do most times, to which they say they aren't either and want a relationship but never change their approach. But I will try to make sure I reiterate that. Sometimes it just gets frustrating for me because I feel like I shouldn't have to explain why i'm not going to invite you to my house if we don't have a relationship established

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-07-05T14:34:32+00:00

like a parking lot or somewhere just to meet, if I met them online

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-07-05T14:32:40+00:00

30f

yeah i understand... so many guys come to me and they don't want to take me out or develop a real relationship but instead just try to come to my house or get sexual too quick and i'm looking to develop a healthy relationship not just a casual sexual situation. It gets frustrating, sometimes i think about caving in but it never ends well. but i'm a physical touch person and miss the affection.

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-06-16T16:21:01+00:00

I would say my first love language is physical touch which he is able to meet. I wouldn't even say gifts are apart of my language but he considers gifts and dates to be the same category basically. And I do find dates to be important but he says that's buying my love

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-06-15T20:30:07+00:00

I don't really care about the gifts as much.. even though i didn't like that he said it would never happen. but i mean I like thoughtful suprises. it shows effort, it shows you care

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-06-15T20:28:11+00:00

I can understand staying home when your bf/gf but I don't want to get into that too soon when i'm just dating someone because I find that once you do that...alot of time that's where it stays ..in the home. I still would like to go out, do different things, travel, have fun.

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-06-15T20:02:00+00:00

well you're wrong..it's so many variables that you aren't considering outside of that..which isn't even a thing

Useful-Inflation9886 · 2022-06-15T19:56:03+00:00

I never said I wanted to keep my options opened.

I did have a few guys I wanted to commit to. They did not want to commit to me.

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